• Deal or No Deal? Exploring Relationship Deal Breakers
    What are the turn-ons and what are the turn-offs when you scan the personal ads? What happens when the "dream date" turns into a "worst case scenario"?
    - 15 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 9:32pm -
  • 17 Tips to September Love and Gratitude
    With glorious sunsets and a changing season, September is the time to cultivate gratitude and love.
    - 15 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 9:17pm -
  • What is Brainlock?
    Now you get it: You are trapped—by your own brain activity and chemistry, by developmental patterns from the past, by the way your patterns and your partner's patterns interlock with one another, and by social forces that are hard to see. Read abou…
    - 15 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 9:15pm -
  • 5 Things Extroverts Who Love Introverts Should Know
    "Because introversion" is not the end of the discussion.
    - 16 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 8:39pm -
  • Charlie: The Feral Dog Who Came in From the Wild
    A new book about a feral dog called "Charlie: The Dog Who Came in From the Wild" by Lisa Tenzin-Dolma shows the importance of shared trust, love, and deep commitment when one chooses to live with a "difficult dog" who came to the author with very spe…
    - 20 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 4:42pm -
  • My Boyfriend Died Because I Failed to Make a Phone Call
    Is his privacy more important than his life?
    - 20 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 4:36pm -
  • What Is the Female Social Code?
    How To Handle Complicated Friend/Boyfriend Situations
    - 21 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 3:39pm -
  • Getting Along With Others: Parenting for Social Intelligence
    Children and teens can experience social challenges at any point during the school year. Social context—including opportunities for interaction and collaboration with others—makes an enormous difference in what and how much children learn, and ho…
    - 23 hours ago, 3 Sep 15, 1:14pm -
  • My Best Tweets: Part V
    22 of my best ideas on work & on relationships, each in just a sentence or two.
    - 1 day ago, 3 Sep 15, 7:25am -
  • Getting to the Source
    Reflecting on all the buzz about the "Reproducibility Project," I thought it might be worthwhile to provide some perspective from one of the 270 cast members in the Collaboration about what the experience was like - and intended to be - on our side o…
    - 1 day ago, 3 Sep 15, 12:45am -




    • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
      If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
      - 5 days ago, 30 Aug 15, 7:31pm -
    • The Simple Exercise That Will Lead You Toward Love
      The path to love is never simple. When we decide to pursue our longing for love, we’re led down a path with challenges we might never have dreamed of. For me, the decision to become a father—as a forty-something, single gay man---is what changed…
      - 75 days ago, 21 Jun 15, 7:19pm -
    • 3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts That Hold You Back
      This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity, a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voic…
      - 23 May 15, 1:28pm -
    • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
      I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
      - 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -
    • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
      In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
      - 12 Jan 15, 2:14pm -
    • Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt: Insight-Gems for Singles
      I am so pleased to share my interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt on the conscious search for love. Simply interviewing this extraordinary couple was an inspiring experience. There are many gems of insight here, and I encourage every…
      - 16 Nov 14, 1:25pm -
    • How to Discover Your Core Intimacy Gifts
      Young or old, single or coupled, each of us is faced with the great challenge of learning to love. Our core gifts lie at the heart of our intimacy journey, and when we identify them, we hold an invaluable key to understanding ourselves and all our re…
      - 19 Oct 14, 3:54pm -
    • Lady Valor: Kristin Beck, gender-role freedom and love
      Lady Valor, airing this Thursday, is an inspiring CNN documentary about transgender activist Kristin Beck. As a decorated Navy Seal, Christopher Beck crossed enemy lines to fight for freedom. As Kristin, she crosses equally scary enemy lines; the gen…
      - 1 Sep 14, 4:07pm -
    • 2 Ideas That Will Change The Way You Think About Romance
      The majority of dating advice subtly guides us away from authentic intimacy. In its superficial fixation on looks, games and gimmicks, such advice sparks insecurity and encourages unkindness toward ourselves and others. According to exciting research…
      - 18 Aug 14, 2:00pm -
    • A Simple Question That Will Change Your Search for Love
      Most advice on seeking love focuses on the skills of seeking, not the skills of loving. Apps, events and websites offer endless opportunities to meet, but until we learn how to choose healthy intimacy and nurture its tender new shoots, it’s unlikel…
      - 30 Jun 14, 2:41pm -
    • An Interview with Judith Orloff, MD: The Power of Surrender
      Judith Orloff, M.D. is a psychiatrist, intuitive healer, and NY Times bestselling author. Her most recent book is the national bestseller The Ecstasy of Surrender: 12 Surprising Ways Letting Go Can Empower Your Life. In this interview, Judith explain…
      - 2 Jun 14, 11:08am -
    • What No One Teaches Us About Love
      Fear of intimacy isn’t a character flaw rendering us unfit for intimacy; it is part of being human. If we're breathing, we have fear of intimacy. The real question is: How do we keep love at arms length-and what can we do to change that?
      - 1 Mar 14, 12:01pm -


    • Anger Is An Investment In Him
      The Question: Carol says, “I would like you to review ways of telling a perfectly nice man you’re not attracted to him and won’t go out with him again.” My Answer: The simple answer to this question is: “I’m not available.” If he asks f…
      - 7 days ago, 28 Aug 15, 5:01pm -
    • When Long Distance Actually Means Nothing At All
      The Question: “Rori: I write this with a heavy heart, because it is breaking in pieces like a hammer to a piece of glass. I was in a relationship with a guy in another state… well last night while we were texting, I told him I had all my ducks i…
      - 20 days ago, 15 Aug 15, 1:08am -
    • Monica Lewinsky Challenges Us To Change The World For Everyone
      If you’ve ever felt what Monica’s felt… Regardless of the mistakes she’s made or you’ve made… Ask yourself: who’s doing the bullying of you? Is it someone else, or is it you? If you’re a teenager being mocked and snickered at by your…
      - 43 days ago, 23 Jul 15, 1:34pm -
    • Don’t Let “Safe” Make You Sorry in Love
      We are all driven by so many forces within us to make ourselves feel “safe.” It’s all old stuff. Old ways of coping with pain and grief, and frustration, and with the message we’ve been handed, over and over and over and over again – that w…
      - 47 days ago, 19 Jul 15, 8:14pm -
    • She Turned Her Marriage Around By Circular Dating While Pregnant!
      Here’s an amazing, uplifting letter from Joan: “Rori, I emailed you a few months back after purchasing your whole program. I was separated from my husband and was not dating anyone because my husband and I agreed to sexual exclusivity and dating…
      - 54 days ago, 12 Jul 15, 1:05am -
    • Why Am I Here With This Man, Thinking Something’s Wrong With ME?
      The Question: “Rori, I was raised to always behave. Don’t drink and drive. Don’t drive without my license. Don’t do drugs. Have a job. My boyfriend does all of the above. Drinks and drives, drives without a license, does drugs, doesn’t have…
      - 64 days ago, 2 Jul 15, 1:23pm -
    • Last Chance For Free Coaching From My RRRCT Trainees!
      Hi, This is Rori, Get great coaching from my new, amazing RRRCT Trainees Right NOW – before they graduate!! These new coaches are available to you right now because they’re in the Advanced Coaching Module of RRRCT. After they graduate from Traini…
      - 67 days ago, 29 Jun 15, 1:06pm -
    • Free Teleclass: How To Know If Being A Professional Coach Is For You…
      Hi, this is Rori, and if you’re on the fence about RRRCT, talk with me LIVE, tomorrow, Tuesday, June 16th at either 11am PST or 5:30pm PST (2pm and 8:30pm EST), live and in-person by teleseminar on the RRRCT Teleclass… 1. To Phone Or Skype into t…
      - 81 days ago, 15 Jun 15, 1:50pm -
    • When Anger And Frustration Gets In The Way Of Love…
      The Question: “Hi Rori. I am a follower of your work. I have a question that I hope you can answer. Your work helped me find the man of my dreams. I did all the tools. He fell in love with me. And he won me over. I gave a chance to something differ…
      - 87 days ago, 9 Jun 15, 3:20pm -
    • Free Teleclass With The Great Tatia Dee!
      From Rori: Oh – You’re in for a treat! And for free! Go to this teleclass with Tatia Dee – she’s amazing. Not only is she a fantastic coach and an incredibly accomplished and powerful woman – she’s one of the most kind-hearted, gentle, sm…
      - 93 days ago, 3 Jun 15, 1:01pm -


    • Five Reasons Why Summer Is a Single Gal’s Best Season
      So you’re single this summer—so what? There’s no better time of year to be on your own, so celebrate your status and make the most of the season with our list.
      - 75 days ago, 21 Jun 15, 7:00am -
    • Why He Doesn't Think You're Fat
      By now, the whole “Honey, do I look fat in this?” scene has been fully unmasked as the farce it is, useful today only as a reference to stand-up comic hacks. But be aware that the sentiment behind it lives on in more modern variations, including:…
      - 76 days ago, 20 Jun 15, 7:05am -
    • The Top 10 Signs He’s a Keeper
      If you think you've found your loyal Colin Firth in the sea of one-night stand Colin Farrells, then you might just have a keeper. Here are the top 10 signs.
      - 82 days ago, 14 Jun 15, 7:00am -


    • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
      Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
      - 14 days ago, 21 Aug 15, 10:30am -
    • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
      Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
      - 16 days ago, 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
      So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
      - 24 days ago, 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
    • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
      It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
      - 39 days ago, 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
    • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
      Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
      - 40 days ago, 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
    • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
      I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
      - 42 days ago, 24 Jul 15, 11:46am -
    • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
      The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
      - 43 days ago, 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
    • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
      Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
      - 49 days ago, 17 Jul 15, 5:12pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
      When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
      - 50 days ago, 16 Jul 15, 2:33pm -
    • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
      Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
      - 52 days ago, 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
    • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
      Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
      - 53 days ago, 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
    • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
      Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
      - 56 days ago, 10 Jul 15, 12:14pm -
    • Sammy Okposo Gifts His Wife A Brand New LR3 Automobile
      Gospel Artist Sammie Okposo recently gift his wife Ozioma, with a brand new Land Rover automobile as they celebrate their fifth wedding anniversary. Okposo and Ozioma walked down the aisle on Saturday, July 1, 2010. What seemed like yesterday is 5yea…
      - 63 days ago, 3 Jul 15, 10:18am -
    • I Shall Travel To Washington DC And Propose To Barack Obama – Robert Mugabe
      The President of the United States of America, Barack Obama, recently passed the same sex marriage bill allowing homosexuals to express themselves. Reacting to this, President of Zimbabwe Robert Mugabe, was sarcastic as he had this to say; ”I’ve…
      - 66 days ago, 30 Jun 15, 12:40pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: So You’re Engaged?
      So, it happened….in a restaurant, at a public event,  maybe by flash mob, at the spot you first met, at your birthday, or his, within the privacy of your bedroom, or his or in front of family and friends….that man you love asked you to be his wi…
      - 66 days ago, 30 Jun 15, 9:19am -
    • Help!!! Love Gone Sour As Lady Bathes Her Boyfriend With Acid
      Somewhere in Nigeria, a young man is fighting for his life as his girlfriend poured an unreasonable amount of acid on him after which her where about cannot be ascertained. The story is still sketchy at the moment, we are making efforts to getting ad…
      - 70 days ago, 26 Jun 15, 8:32pm -
    • Video: Toke Makinwa’s Latest Vlog Starts #YouAreBetterOffAlone Hash Tag
      Popular radio/TV personality Toke Makinwa, whose hubby (Maje Ayida) got his ex-girlfriend pregnant has been all over the news for some time now. Many would have expected so much drama from the Vblogger but to our greatest surprise, she exhibited so m…
      - 71 days ago, 25 Jun 15, 8:00pm -
    • Jamb Questions And The Annoying Toasters
      Simi’s Jamb Question is such a good song, and everything about is fresh and refreshing. But probably the best thing about is the message and demographic it represents. Yes I’m talking about those of us girls that are tired of dry toasters, and th…
      - 73 days ago, 23 Jun 15, 2:56pm -
    • Read Charley Boy’s Heart Felt Message To His Wife
      Charles Chukwuemeka Oputa, AKA Charley Boy, on Tuesday, took to his Instagram to celebrate his 37th marriage anniversary to his wife, Lady D. The area father made the day a memorable one as he reached out to his amiable wife, Lady D, expressing his l…
      - 79 days ago, 17 Jun 15, 8:35am -
    • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Impregnates His Ex-Lover | Toke Responds 

      - 82 days ago, 14 Jun 15, 4:34pm -