• Looking for love? Are your chances better on or offline?

    Looking for love? Are your chances better on or offline?

    Internet dating and marriage has been around long enough that its success and failure rate is being studied. It’s also being compared to more traditional ways of finding love. According to a study led by University of Chicago professor and…
    - 4 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 6:11pm -
  • Why Insecure People Make Such Bad Bosses

    Why Insecure People Make Such Bad Bosses

    The comedy Horrible Bosses, was a ridiculous parody of the extreme awkwardness and discomfort that employees can experience when their bosses are exploitative, incompetent, or capricious. In reality, people experience difficulties with th…
    - 9 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 1:45pm -
  • "What's He Building in There?"—Anatomy of an Irrelationship

    "What's He Building in There?"—Anatomy of an Irrelationship

    What’s he building in there?I’ll tell you one thingHe’s not building a playhouse for the childrenWhat’s he building in there?—Tom Waits, “What’s He Building In There?” ( sought psy…
    - 1 day ago, 30 Jan 15, 2:07pm -
  • 4 Actions of Successful Relationships

    4 Actions of Successful Relationships

    How Successful Are You in Relationships?"Marriage is not a noun, it's a verb. It isn't something you get. It's something you do." This quote is not only accurate for marriage but for many relationships. Successful, loving relationshi…
    - 2 days ago, 30 Jan 15, 6:46am -
  • ADHD Goes Global: But Why?

    ADHD Goes Global: But Why?

    Medicalization and ADHDI recently came across a thought-provoking article by two Brandeis sociologists (Conrad & Bergey, 2014), arguing that ADHD has become a “medicalized” phenomenon of global proportions. The gist of this pa…
    - 2 days ago, 29 Jan 15, 10:37pm -
  • 5 Ways to Get Close to Others

    5 Ways to Get Close to Others

    People often come to me berating themselves and feeling they are fated to never be close or truly known by another being. They list their family experiences growing up, experiencing divorce, trauma, a history of bullying, going through a chr…
    - 2 days ago, 29 Jan 15, 9:19pm -
  • Increase Your Trust Awareness with These Key Stakeholders

    Increase Your Trust Awareness with These Key Stakeholders

    "Trust in Institutions Drops to Level of Great Recession," according to the press release headline from the recently released 2015 Edelman Trust Barometer Does that statement about trust surprise you? Or does it confirm a decline you've been…
    - 2 days ago, 29 Jan 15, 4:20pm -
  • 5 Phrases That Kill Closeness

    5 Phrases That Kill Closeness

    Photo: Pink Sherbet Photography/Wikimedia CommonsAny relationship can benefit from more closeness. Closeness is created between two people through knowing each other well and caring for each other openly. These are simple actions you…
    - 3 days ago, 29 Jan 15, 3:12am -
  • Women Who Don't Orgasm

    Women Who Don't Orgasm

    I saw an older rom-com last weekend titled: “Because I Said So” with Diane Keaton playing a neurotic mother trying to find a partner for her youngest still single daughter.   While the movie is not one of Keaton’s best (hands down A…
    - 3 days ago, 28 Jan 15, 10:27pm -
  • Do You Dare to Pop This Question?

    Do You Dare to Pop This Question?

    Flickr:  Ed YourdonAfter an evening of sharing the living room sofa together while they watched a romantic movie, Brandon turned to his partner Kim, to whom he’d been married for nearly 30 years and asked, “If you met me today,…
    - 3 days ago, 28 Jan 15, 10:08pm -


  • NewSavage
    And then my stomach knots like an insane carnival ride to the moon, and I bite my lip to keep the pa
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:23pm -
  • NewA Thousand Days
    It’s been a week from today Beth said it would take five For me to feel whole again Twenty one
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:22pm -
  • NewInspiration to Just Grow In A New Direction

    Inspiration to Just Grow In A New Direction

    The great news is that we are moving, however it didn’t happen in a way that I had planned.  Y
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:18pm -
  • NewHumor Comes in All Sorts of Packages
    Sometimes there are things you may “think,” but you would never put into words. You may
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:14pm -
  • NewThe desire to reach hearts...

    The desire to reach hearts...

    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:12pm -
  • NewSuicide From Stigma
    cherished79:The stigma against mental illness has come along way, however, we still have to keep edu
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:11pm -
  • NewDepth Of Thinking

    Depth Of Thinking

    As it is the weekend, I thought I would indulge in my passion for candid street photography and ente
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:10pm -
  • NewReview: Men, Women & Children (2014)
    Men, Women & Children (2014) is a film that tells the story of how the Internet shapes the lives
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:09pm -
  • New"The One"

    "The One"

    “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Chr
    - 2 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:07pm -
  • NewAs of February 1st. Taking a Break
    30-day break from social media “[Walking] is the perfect way of moving if you want to see into the l
    - 3 hours ago, 31 Jan 15, 8:03pm -



    • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
      In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
      - 19 days ago, 12 Jan 15, 2:14pm -
    • Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt: Insight-Gems for Singles
      I am so pleased to share my interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt on the conscious search for love. Simply interviewing this extraordinary couple was an inspiring experience. There are many gems of insight here, and I encourage every…
      - 76 days ago, 16 Nov 14, 1:25pm -
    • How to Discover Your Core Intimacy Gifts
      Young or old, single or coupled, each of us is faced with the great challenge of learning to love. Our core gifts lie at the heart of our intimacy journey, and when we identify them, we hold an invaluable key to understanding ourselves and all our re…
      - 19 Oct 14, 3:54pm -
    • Lady Valor: Kristin Beck, gender-role freedom and love
      Lady Valor, airing this Thursday, is an inspiring CNN documentary about transgender activist Kristin Beck. As a decorated Navy Seal, Christopher Beck crossed enemy lines to fight for freedom. As Kristin, she crosses equally scary enemy lines; the gen…
      - 1 Sep 14, 4:07pm -
    • 2 Ideas That Will Change The Way You Think About Romance
      The majority of dating advice subtly guides us away from authentic intimacy. In its superficial fixation on looks, games and gimmicks, such advice sparks insecurity and encourages unkindness toward ourselves and others. According to exciting research…
      - 18 Aug 14, 2:00pm -
    • A Simple Question That Will Change Your Search for Love
      Most advice on seeking love focuses on the skills of seeking, not the skills of loving. Apps, events and websites offer endless opportunities to meet, but until we learn how to choose healthy intimacy and nurture its tender new shoots, it’s unlikel…
      - 30 Jun 14, 2:41pm -
    • An Interview with Judith Orloff, MD: The Power of Surrender
      Judith Orloff, M.D. is a psychiatrist, intuitive healer, and NY Times bestselling author. Her most recent book is the national bestseller The Ecstasy of Surrender: 12 Surprising Ways Letting Go Can Empower Your Life. In this interview, Judith explain…
      - 2 Jun 14, 11:08am -
    • What No One Teaches Us About Love
      Fear of intimacy isn’t a character flaw rendering us unfit for intimacy; it is part of being human. If we're breathing, we have fear of intimacy. The real question is: How do we keep love at arms length-and what can we do to change that?
      - 1 Mar 14, 12:01pm -
    • The Power of the Gifts We Hide
      Each of us creates a “false self” to protect our “true self” when it feels frightening to be genuine in the world. If our false self becomes dominant, it begins to bury the very qualities it was originally designed to protect. These buried qu…
      - 17 Dec 13, 11:59am -
    • The Two Best Questions For Your Sex Life
      Often, the questions we ask of ourselves are what finally carve the shape of our lives. A great question excites us, opens new doors, and invites both compassion and curiosity. I’d like to offer two such questions about sex. Your answers will teach…
      - 18 Nov 13, 12:04pm -
    • Creating an Intimacy-Rich Life: A Journey In Three Stages
      In my practice as a psychotherapist, I’ve observed a remarkable pattern in the lives of people who strive for healthy intimacy. This pattern is marked by three important--and often surprising—stages. Each stage is a mark of real progress, yet few…
      - 21 Oct 13, 2:17pm -
    • Three Mindfulness Exercises to Improve Your Dating Life
      The search for a loving partner is one of our great life-tasks. Yet most dating advice is superficial; focusing endlessly upon the power of seduction and flat abs. Here are three exercises which approach dating as an adventure of self-discovery. They…
      - 31 Aug 13, 2:31pm -


    • Miranda Kerr Talks About Circular Dating
      I was just sent this article from Harper’s – an interview with the lovely model, singer, organic cosmetic line mogul, and self-help author Miranda Kerr:…
      - 9 days ago, 23 Jan 15, 1:42am -
    • A Schoolgirl Crush, Or The Real Thing?
      Here’s a letter from Alice that may sound very extreme to you – and it’s a common, everyday experience that so many women are having. It may seem like the height of “being taken for a ride.” And yet, to Alice, it feels like love and potenti…
      - 11 days ago, 20 Jan 15, 2:06pm -
    • What Can I Do To Get Him Back?
      This is such a powerfully painful letter from Lydia, and just reading it, I feel such a painful pull into old feelings I’ve had in my life of simply…losing myself. To Lydia – this has nothing to do with this man, and all to do with your wanting…
      - 16 days ago, 15 Jan 15, 6:18pm -
    • Amazing Articles By Rabbi Shmuley
      I came across these articles by Rabbi Shmuley by accident – and instantly felt “GOT.” I have never read anything like this from a man, and am in touch with him to get an interview and help from him around this situation.   Here are the article…
      - 26 days ago, 5 Jan 15, 6:46pm -
    • New Years 2014 – Love Is All There Is
      This is my traditional New Year’s post – and I’d love to create something new with your help….Do you have any traditions for the New Year that feel great for you? I’d LOVE to put together a post, or a report that has New Years rituals and t…
      - 31 days ago, 31 Dec 14, 2:33pm -
    • Maintaining Relationships With Two Men And Keeping Them Secret From Each Other: Is It Even Possible?
      Though Irina has asked me to “not judge her” – why would any of us judge something we all feel sometimes? We all find ourselves caught between “wants.” Caught between what’s “right” (or what we think is right…) and what we desire. C…
      - 33 days ago, 29 Dec 14, 2:53pm -
    • For Your Holiday Season 2014
      Here’s my favorite Holiday post….and happy everything to you… Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Winter Solstice, many more traditions both religious and secular – all together, all at once the mere thought of it fills me with feelings of dread. I…
      - 37 days ago, 25 Dec 14, 5:32pm -
    • Be A Rori Raye Coach – Free Teleclasses Monday, December 15th
      Ask Me How RRRCT Can Help You Be A Professional, Successful Rori Raye Trained Relationship Coach… If you’re considering enrolling in RRRCT – the Fundamentals for 2015, learning how to help women in their love lives exactly the way I do and get…
      - 50 days ago, 12 Dec 14, 2:04pm -
    • When Are You Actually “Ready” To Meet Mr. Right? Now!
      The Question: “Rori, If a woman doesn’t completely love herself, care for herself, feel happy in herself and secure in herself first, then won’t she keep attracting men who mirror that. If we do the inner work first, then wouldn’t we attra…
      - 54 days ago, 8 Dec 14, 10:13pm -
    • Free RRRCT Teleclass On December 15th – Be a Rori Raye Trained Coach
      Ask Me How RRRCT Can Help You Be A Professional, Successful Rori Raye Trained Relationship Coach… If you’re considering enrolling in RRRCT – the Fundamentals for 2015, learning how to help women in their love lives exactly the way I do and get…
      - 72 days ago, 20 Nov 14, 6:00pm -


    • 25 Universal Truths About Men
      Most of the time, it’s smart to stay away from making generalizations about “the unfamiliar.” But sometimes there’s truth in these statements and men can certainly fall into this category for us. That’s why Relationship Doctor Bob Grant ris…
      - 15 days ago, 17 Jan 15, 8:00am -
    • Do the Holidays Equal Relationship Doom?
      Yes, it's that time of year again. Thanksgiving kicks off the annual relationship freeze which lasts through the New Year. Much like government wage freezes that leave DMV workers and other civil servants with salaries stuck in 1973, the annual datin…
      - 55 days ago, 8 Dec 14, 8:00am -
    • Celebrate Your Single Self!
      Once upon a time, being single between the months of November and February could make a gal feel like a social misfit. Thank goodness times have changed! How to Celebrate Being SingleOwn your independence.Instead of dreading the office holiday pa…
      - 57 days ago, 6 Dec 14, 8:00am -