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  • Making Room for it All–Part 1
    We deepen our capacity to experience life in general when we have a close connection with another human being.
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  • I Lost My Step-Family and I'm Distressed
    Reader: My dad and stepmother split up and I miss my stepbrother.
    - 10 hours ago, 24 Jun 16, 10:57pm -
  • Making Love with Your Bliss
    Spring has sprung with a leap and a bound. Sooner it seems, than in previous years.
    - 12 hours ago, 24 Jun 16, 8:21pm -
  • Laughing After Divorce
    Divorce is common and results in difficult feelings and experiences. A new study explores the role of humor after divorce.
    - 14 hours ago, 24 Jun 16, 6:25pm -
  • 10 Ways to Reduce Smartphone Mindlessness
    Smartphones have their pros and cons. But are we mindful of the cons or are we mindless to what we don't know? Here are 10 tips for managing the cons of too much cell phone use.
    - 16 hours ago, 24 Jun 16, 4:57pm -
  • The Coldplay Effect and Connectivity
    Stay in touch with your humanity.
    - 16 hours ago, 24 Jun 16, 4:50pm -
  • How Do Toxic Relationships Affect Health?
    If relationships came with nutritional labels, would you think twice about getting involved?
    - 16 hours ago, 24 Jun 16, 4:48pm -
  • Gender Communication: It’s Complicated
    Women and men can be perceived as members of two distinct and separate subcultures within a larger, more general culture.
    - 20 hours ago, 24 Jun 16, 12:46pm -
  • Is Your Relationship Over?
    Are you riddled with angst over whether or not all is well and secure in your romantic partnership? Here are 5 ways to help determine if you need to let this relationship go.
    - 1 day ago, 24 Jun 16, 12:27am -
  • Is Your Pet Helping You in the Dating Market?
    Your reaction to your own dog and your date's dog may determine how attractive you appear to a potential partner
    - 2 days ago, 23 Jun 16, 6:41pm -


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  • NewThe Imperfections Of An Unrequited Love
    (c) Poetry, Day Five: Imperfect  You were like a ray sunshine, and everything about you blinded me.
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  • New3 Things To Do While Sad At Work
    Office politics can actually take over you and your positive mindset for a toss. There are times whe
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  • NewLove (Netflix Original)

    Love (Netflix Original)

    “Love” is a Netflix original series created by Judd Apatow, Paul Rust, and Lesley Arfin.
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  • NewHate You!
    I hate you for making me miss you.. I hate for you for creating a space that never existed before I
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  • NewWhereabouts
    As friends we share a lot of things. That’s a nice thought in itself, but there are some storm
    - 50 mins ago, 25 Jun 16, 7:46am -
  • NewUntitled
    I don’t know what love is nor do I know what being in love feels like. All I understand is tha
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  • NewNo poem
    no poem because there are no words to express the morning’s sadness
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  • NewThe shaft!!
    Dear Annie: After years of attending and giving gifts for weddings, showers, birthday parties and gr
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  • NewBeing careless about your relationships..
    Being careless about your relationships in life with your family ,friends and people you know , lead
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  • The 2 Questions You Have to Ask About Your Relationship
    This simple exercise will lead you to greater intimacy, joy and healing in your most important relationships.
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  • Losing Love—and Finding It Again
    My extraordinary father recently passed away at 90. How he freed himself from hate’s grip, healed his relationship with me, and reclaimed his love for his wife is a story of hope.
    - 43 days ago, 13 May 16, 1:28pm -
  • A Research-Backed Recipe for Deep Romance on Valentines Day
    These two exercises are a research-backed recipe for a profoundly romantic Valentine’s Day; they will deepen your long-term bond, reduce stress, and even improve your day-after!
    - 13 Feb 16, 4:46pm -
  • An Intimacy Micro-Meditation For Your New Year
    Recognizing the value of the intimacy gifts we have already is one of the greatest ways to improve our lives. This short practice will help you discover your own intimacy gifts.
    - 2 Jan 16, 2:45am -
  • Three Liberating Insights For Single People
    Here are the three most liberating insights I know for single people. Follow them, and you’ll change the course of your dating life in surprising and wonderful ways.
    - 18 Dec 15, 11:42am -
  • A Life-Changing Exercise for Anyone Who Has Lost a Loved One
    Perhaps the greatest secret to a love-filled life is to cherish the relationships we already have--including relationships with those who have passed. Here is a simple yet profoundly healing exercise for anyone who has lost a loved one.
    - 16 Oct 15, 12:56pm -
  • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
    If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
    - 30 Aug 15, 7:31pm -
  • The Simple Exercise That Will Lead You Toward Love
    The path to love is never simple. When we decide to pursue our longing for love, we’re led down a path with challenges we might never have dreamed of. For me, the decision to become a father—as a forty-something, single gay man---is what changed…
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  • 3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts That Hold You Back
    This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity, a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voic…
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  • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
    I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
    - 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -
  • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
    In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
    - 12 Jan 15, 2:14pm -
  • Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt: Insight-Gems for Singles
    I am so pleased to share my interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt on the conscious search for love. Simply interviewing this extraordinary couple was an inspiring experience. There are many gems of insight here, and I encourage every…
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  • Webinar Sunday, June 26th!: How To Become A Successful Coach – No Matter Where You’re Starting From…
    How You Can Be Successful At Something That Helps And Heals Others… What if all the girlfriends who’re always asking you for love, life and relationship advice actually paid you for your time, experience and knowledge? What if the woman you met i…
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  • How Can Feeling Messages End Up “Heated”?
    The Question: “Rori, Not sure if anyone has had this problem with feeling messages. Sometimes when I’m going back and forth with my husband and using feeling messages, he will abruptly respond with, “Well, I’m sorry YOU feel that way.” We l…
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  • What Do I Really, Really Want?
    Ever get this inner rage feeling where you want to spew all over everyone? I’m feeling that right this minute, and so this blog post is right from now, me talking into my phone on a dog walk. And now, as I speak – it’s faded. In the past. My hu…
    - 22 days ago, 3 Jun 16, 1:02pm -
  • Elizabeth Gilbert On Expansion
    From Elizabeth Gilbert, author of “Eat, Pray, Love,” “Committed,” “The Signature Of All Things,”  “Big Magic” and so many other articles, stories and books: “Generally speaking I feel like I want to encourage people to have the mos…
    - 26 days ago, 30 May 16, 1:15pm -
  • Dangerous Nail Polish
    Here’s just a bit of this article – scary as heck – and FIXABLE!!!! One of the biggest concerns about triphenyl phosphate (or TPHP) is that it is known to disrupt humans’ endocrine system, which controls all our hormones. Head researcher, Dr.…
    - 28 days ago, 28 May 16, 1:30pm -
  • How To Shift Your Mind To Love
    I was asked in a Business Siren interview: “What can our listeners could start doing today to shift their mindset to have more money, success, and freedom in their lives?” My answer was simple: It’s about “play.” It’s about considering wh…
    - 30 days ago, 26 May 16, 1:06pm -
  • The Best Way To Use This Blog…
    To help keep us “opinion-less” and “Feeling Message” using, here’s the “Guidelines For Posting” page (it’s in the Menu above for reference): What’s so special about this community on this blog is that we’re a safe place… We’re…
    - 32 days ago, 24 May 16, 1:38pm -
  • Can You “Make” Him Love You?
    A man’s love for you must never be considered as something that can rise or fall, or be brought into being or discarded, or won or lost by anything you do or do not do. However, the expression of that love, and his choice whether or not to express…
    - 34 days ago, 22 May 16, 1:42pm -
  • Change Your Life Like Sami Wunder Did In 22 Weeks
    Only a couple of months left to go before we start RRRCT 2016, on July 11th – and wanted you to get to know first hand one of RRRCT’s shining stars: Sami Wunder. When Sami came to RRRCT, she was feeling what many new Trainees feel – doubtful th…
    - 36 days ago, 20 May 16, 1:56pm -
  • The New Feminism And Having It All
    Because I’m focusing all my work now on the concept of “Have It All!” – I’m always on the lookout for something we can chew on here. This article profoundly affected me – because, when my…
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  • Nicki Minaj And Meek Mill Wedding Plans
    It hasn’t been 100 percent confirmed that Meek Mill and Nicki Minaj are engaged, but Nicki certainly has marriage on her mind. She just asked her Twitter followers to choose between a beach wedding and a church wedding, and it would be strange if s…
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  • Dear NwaVic: My Long-Distance Girlfriend Visits Her Male Friend at His House till Nighttime
    Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I’m currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to se…
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  • Online Dating II Your First Impression
                                                     Found on: Internet dating is very common and more and more popular these days. Of course, first thing you notice on someone’s profile where you make your f…
    - 28 Oct 15, 11:09pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: How to Get the Best Out of Your Wedding Vendors
    Aloha! As promised, as a sequel to the post on how to retain awesome vendors, here’s how to get the best of of your wedding vendors both in quality and quantity.  1. Be Nice! First things first. Once you choose your vendors, you should endeav…
    - 26 Oct 15, 5:05am -
  • The Fallacy About Feminism By Victor Terhemba
    In the present world order, the world thrives on hypocrisy and blackmail. We were all humans until ………… These days we are blackmailed with virtually everything, making the victim look like the aggressor. For example, because you are a born ag…
    - 17 Oct 15, 11:33am -
  • Corporate Social Responsibility
    Before anyone goes further in wondering what this is all about, I’ll like to be permitted to bring a little public relations into the scene. …………….. In the context of public relations, Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) is a societal f…
    - 17 Oct 15, 10:52am -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Tips on How to Choose Your Bridal Party
    The Squad.  The Clique.  The Leading Ladies and Gents.  The A-Team.  The Support Group.  The Hype-Men and Women.  ……..That’s what they are to you. But to the rest of the world, they are your bridal party…They are the men and women who g…
    - 17 Sep 15, 3:06am -
  • Pastor Chris Okotie Is Not A Pastor – Emeka Ike
    It would seem this two would soon start throwing punches, the war between Emeka Ike and Rev. Pastor Chris Okotie, is still on as Emeka has responded to Pastor Chris’s comments He said “I think his (Okotie’s) comment is a clear indication that h…
    - 7 Sep 15, 9:51am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
    Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
    - 21 Aug 15, 10:30am -
  • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
    Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
    - 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
    So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
    - 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
  • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
    It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
    - 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
  • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
    Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
    - 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
    I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
    - 24 Jul 15, 11:46am -
  • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
    The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
    - 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
    Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
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  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
    When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
    - 16 Jul 15, 2:33pm -
  • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
    Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
    - 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
  • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
    Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
    - 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
    Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
    - 10 Jul 15, 12:14pm -