• What do Children Think about Love?
    A group of over thirty preschoolers and kindergarteners were asked what they thought of the word “love.” While younger children were primarily focused on an external conceptual line of thinking, the older children had moved to one that was more i…
    - 6 hours ago, 28 Mar 15, 11:50pm -
  • Shaming Women: Sex, Toys, and Cosmetic Surgery
    Stigmatizing women continues. But let us be grateful to women's advocates -- those who expose the finger pointers.
    - 11 hours ago, 28 Mar 15, 7:24pm -
  • The Discipline of Marriage: Advice from Long Relationships
    Despite dire media reports, most young people want to get married - and stay married for life. A study of long-married elders offers advice on the role of commitment throughout a long relationship.
    - 15 hours ago, 28 Mar 15, 2:54pm -
  • The Best Way to Get Love is to Show Love
    Without realizing it, you communicate our emotions to others through our behavior as well as our words. In the best of all possible worlds, you would communicate only the positive, and not the negative emotions to those in your social world. By commu…
    - 17 hours ago, 28 Mar 15, 12:43pm -
  • Changing the ‘No Casserole’ Response to Mental Illness
    A mother of two who is active in the International Bipolar Foundation shared a story the other day. When her youngest daughter was diagnosed with diabetes, friends called, sent cards and flowers, brought food, and posted encouraging Facebook messages…
    - 1 day ago, 28 Mar 15, 12:19am -
  • Looking for a Partner? The Four Buckets, Part 2
    Look for like or love in a different way.
    - 1 day ago, 27 Mar 15, 11:12pm -
  • An Open Letter to Conversation Stealers
    Are you a talker or a listener?
    - 1 day ago, 27 Mar 15, 9:05pm -
  • The Benefits of Embracing the Ordinary
    What would you rather do, write down the last conversation you had or watch a funny video? This is one question researchers asked in an effort to understand whether we underestimate the pleasure we get from recalling mundane events from our past. We…
    - 1 day ago, 27 Mar 15, 8:45pm -
  • 15 Kinds of Verbal Abuse
    "The ability to feel, like the ability to think, is universal to the nature of humanity. Unfortunately, the abuser is generally unwilling to accept his feelings and unwilling to reveal them to his partner. He builds a wall between himself and his par…
    - 1 day ago, 27 Mar 15, 6:25pm -
  • The Real Reason People Think Promiscuity Is Wrong
    Why do many people think promiscuity is morally wrong? STDs may sound like the simplest explanation, but it's probably not the correct one.
    - 2 days ago, 27 Mar 15, 5:38pm -




    • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
      I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
      - 15 days ago, 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -
    • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
      In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
      - 76 days ago, 12 Jan 15, 2:14pm -
    • Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt: Insight-Gems for Singles
      I am so pleased to share my interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt on the conscious search for love. Simply interviewing this extraordinary couple was an inspiring experience. There are many gems of insight here, and I encourage every…
      - 16 Nov 14, 1:25pm -
    • How to Discover Your Core Intimacy Gifts
      Young or old, single or coupled, each of us is faced with the great challenge of learning to love. Our core gifts lie at the heart of our intimacy journey, and when we identify them, we hold an invaluable key to understanding ourselves and all our re…
      - 19 Oct 14, 3:54pm -
    • Lady Valor: Kristin Beck, gender-role freedom and love
      Lady Valor, airing this Thursday, is an inspiring CNN documentary about transgender activist Kristin Beck. As a decorated Navy Seal, Christopher Beck crossed enemy lines to fight for freedom. As Kristin, she crosses equally scary enemy lines; the gen…
      - 1 Sep 14, 4:07pm -
    • 2 Ideas That Will Change The Way You Think About Romance
      The majority of dating advice subtly guides us away from authentic intimacy. In its superficial fixation on looks, games and gimmicks, such advice sparks insecurity and encourages unkindness toward ourselves and others. According to exciting research…
      - 18 Aug 14, 2:00pm -
    • A Simple Question That Will Change Your Search for Love
      Most advice on seeking love focuses on the skills of seeking, not the skills of loving. Apps, events and websites offer endless opportunities to meet, but until we learn how to choose healthy intimacy and nurture its tender new shoots, it’s unlikel…
      - 30 Jun 14, 2:41pm -
    • An Interview with Judith Orloff, MD: The Power of Surrender
      Judith Orloff, M.D. is a psychiatrist, intuitive healer, and NY Times bestselling author. Her most recent book is the national bestseller The Ecstasy of Surrender: 12 Surprising Ways Letting Go Can Empower Your Life. In this interview, Judith explain…
      - 2 Jun 14, 11:08am -
    • What No One Teaches Us About Love
      Fear of intimacy isn’t a character flaw rendering us unfit for intimacy; it is part of being human. If we're breathing, we have fear of intimacy. The real question is: How do we keep love at arms length-and what can we do to change that?
      - 1 Mar 14, 12:01pm -
    • The Power of the Gifts We Hide
      Each of us creates a “false self” to protect our “true self” when it feels frightening to be genuine in the world. If our false self becomes dominant, it begins to bury the very qualities it was originally designed to protect. These buried qu…
      - 17 Dec 13, 11:59am -
    • The Two Best Questions For Your Sex Life
      Often, the questions we ask of ourselves are what finally carve the shape of our lives. A great question excites us, opens new doors, and invites both compassion and curiosity. I’d like to offer two such questions about sex. Your answers will teach…
      - 18 Nov 13, 12:04pm -
    • Creating an Intimacy-Rich Life: A Journey In Three Stages
      In my practice as a psychotherapist, I’ve observed a remarkable pattern in the lives of people who strive for healthy intimacy. This pattern is marked by three important--and often surprising—stages. Each stage is a mark of real progress, yet few…
      - 21 Oct 13, 2:17pm -


    • Can I Love Someone Who Doesn’t Care For Me?
      The answer is, simply, for me, a resounding NO. Yes, I can feel “love” in the form of Chemistry and Lust (not a “bad” thing!) Yes, I can feel “love” in the universal sense of us “all being one.” Yes, I can feel “love” in the way I…
      - 3 days ago, 26 Mar 15, 1:30pm -
    • Your Inner Boy Makes It Possible For Your Inner Girl To Just “Be”
      Let’s start with a list. I really want you to sit down and write me a list about all the things you would do if you could make a difference in the world. What if your making a difference in the world was simply about you finding more peace within y…
      - 6 days ago, 23 Mar 15, 1:45pm -
    • What’s The Most Important Thing Holding You Back From Having It ALL?
      Hi, This is Rori, and I’d love your help! Please let me know your thoughts and feelings about this: What – in your personal experience and the experiences of your friends and family – do you see as the biggest problem around being successful at…
      - 17 days ago, 12 Mar 15, 6:00pm -
    • Are You Afraid Of Being “Weak”? – And “Have It All” Class Tonight!!
      Hi, This is Rori, A male friend of mine once told me how his wife is always talking about how difficult it is for us women to find a balance between “I’m afraid of looking weak” and “I’m afraid of looking ‘bitchy,’” and I just SO iden…
      - 19 days ago, 10 Mar 15, 1:00pm -
    • When You’re Under Attack From Yourself…
      Erica says, “I was in love with a man who drove me crazy. Chased me down, got me, and then drove me crazy pulling away.” Then Erica got physically sick with a rare autoimmune disorder. “I was angry so much of the time. I finally told him to sho…
      - 20 days ago, 9 Mar 15, 1:15pm -
    • Vote For Yourself And Have It All!
      I’m going to use voting as a Tool to feel more powerful – so let’s look at it from the personal perspective of your entire life – not just your love life. Let’s say that voting isn’t about politics – it’s about empowerment. It’s…
      - 24 days ago, 5 Mar 15, 2:21pm -
    • Free New Siren Report: Have It ALL!
      Hi – This is Rori, and If you’ve ever felt yourself “holding back” from saying what you think, or moving ahead with a business venture, or stepping up in a work situation (including asking for a promotion or starting your OWN business as an E…
      - 27 days ago, 2 Mar 15, 1:29pm -
    • When To Run
      The Question: Dear Rori,my name is Connie. I am 32yrs old and I am dating a 53yrs old man who is separated from his wife of 20yrs. They have two children. A boy and a girl of 20 and 17 yes respectively. We live in different countries. Things were fin…
      - 29 days ago, 28 Feb 15, 4:22pm -
    • Who’s Running Your Life From The Inside?
      I want you to start noticing how you’re running your life. Are you running your life always trying to make something happen – or are you running your life just leaning back and letting other people do stuff for you? Are you waiting for someone to…
      - 37 days ago, 19 Feb 15, 8:54pm -
    • Love Forever Live Teleclass Today at 11am PST!
      In just a few hours – get your personal questions answered by me, live, in the newest Love Forever teleseminar! ***If you have a personal relationship question or situation you’d like me to address, just sign up for “Love Forever” anytime bef…
      - 46 days ago, 11 Feb 15, 2:10pm -


    • Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience
      The other day my girlfriend called up to regale me with yet another of her single and fabulous stories. This one involved cocktails, a hot tub and a couple of sexy strangers. It reminded me of my own single days, and for that matter my own pair of se…
      - 11 days ago, 18 Mar 15, 7:00am -
    • Why He Doesn't Think You're Fat
      By now, the whole “Honey, do I look fat in this?” scene has been fully unmasked as the farce it is, useful today only as a reference to stand-up comic hacks. But be aware that the sentiment behind it lives on in more modern variations, including:…
      - 14 days ago, 15 Mar 15, 7:00am -
    • Are We Being Drama Queens? Find Out if You're Overreacting in Your Relationship
      Drama Queen: a woman who is over-emotional, irrational and over-the-top with her reactions and interpretations of behavior and events; emotionally high-maintenance.Personally, I hate labels, and “drama queen” is the worst, especially coming…
      - 15 days ago, 14 Mar 15, 7:00am -