• New5 Reasons Why The Fairy Tale (almost) Always Dies
    The cultural roots of the warrior/hunter man and the feminine/passive-gatherer woman are reflected in the princess and knight in shining armor mentality promoted today. Although compelling, fairy tale expectations set many men and women up for eventu…
    - 52 mins ago, 5 May 15, 6:28pm -
  • NewYour Dog and You: A New Book About Forming Close Friendships
    A new book by Gill Garratt, a psychologist and specialist in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) called "Your dog and you...: Understanding the canine psyche," is a very useful guide for forming close relationships between dogs and humans. The combin…
    - 3 hours ago, 5 May 15, 4:32pm -
  • Dealing with Broken Unspoken Promises in Friendship
    What do you do when a friend consistently lets you down?
    - 3 hours ago, 5 May 15, 4:11pm -
  • The Good Divorce Story
    When facing divorce, many people struggle almost as much from narrative disconnect as from the logistical changes. Their story about what should have happened plagues them almost as much as the facts themselves. Rewriting the narrative is not only n…
    - 3 hours ago, 5 May 15, 4:06pm -
  • What Does it Mean if Your Partner is Possessive?
    An extreme form of jealousy, possessiveness is the desire to put a wall around your partner to ensure you have exclusive access. Take a quiz to find how possessive you are, and what this might say about you and your relationship.
    - 3 hours ago, 5 May 15, 3:55pm -
  • When Someone You Love Is Dying
    Your loved one may be slower--or faster--than you are to accept death.
    - 3 hours ago, 5 May 15, 3:50pm -
  • Are You A Status Seeker? The Chances Are Good that You Are
    Are we hardwired to crave status and to respond to people in programmed ways depending on their status? Is status about what money can buy or something else? A close look at what the research shows...
    - 7 hours ago, 5 May 15, 12:04pm -
  • The Mother's Day Post
    A simple guide for enjoying this holiday regardless of whether you have children or not.
    - 19 hours ago, 5 May 15, 12:03am -
  • If You Tend to Get Scattered, Check for Adult ADD/ADHD
    Children with attention deficits tend to be recognized by parents, pediatricians and teachers. Adult ADD sufferers by contrast often go undiagnosed. Yet adult ADD can destroy relationships at home and at work.
    - 21 hours ago, 4 May 15, 10:47pm -
  • Unbroken by Divorce: 5 Rules of Resilience
    There are big differences among people in how well they do after getting divorced. A recent review article suggested 5 ways that resilient people differ from those who have the hardest time.
    - 1 day ago, 4 May 15, 6:37pm -




    • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
      I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
      - 52 days ago, 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -
    • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
      In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
      - 12 Jan 15, 2:14pm -
    • Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt: Insight-Gems for Singles
      I am so pleased to share my interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt on the conscious search for love. Simply interviewing this extraordinary couple was an inspiring experience. There are many gems of insight here, and I encourage every…
      - 16 Nov 14, 1:25pm -
    • How to Discover Your Core Intimacy Gifts
      Young or old, single or coupled, each of us is faced with the great challenge of learning to love. Our core gifts lie at the heart of our intimacy journey, and when we identify them, we hold an invaluable key to understanding ourselves and all our re…
      - 19 Oct 14, 3:54pm -
    • Lady Valor: Kristin Beck, gender-role freedom and love
      Lady Valor, airing this Thursday, is an inspiring CNN documentary about transgender activist Kristin Beck. As a decorated Navy Seal, Christopher Beck crossed enemy lines to fight for freedom. As Kristin, she crosses equally scary enemy lines; the gen…
      - 1 Sep 14, 4:07pm -
    • 2 Ideas That Will Change The Way You Think About Romance
      The majority of dating advice subtly guides us away from authentic intimacy. In its superficial fixation on looks, games and gimmicks, such advice sparks insecurity and encourages unkindness toward ourselves and others. According to exciting research…
      - 18 Aug 14, 2:00pm -
    • A Simple Question That Will Change Your Search for Love
      Most advice on seeking love focuses on the skills of seeking, not the skills of loving. Apps, events and websites offer endless opportunities to meet, but until we learn how to choose healthy intimacy and nurture its tender new shoots, it’s unlikel…
      - 30 Jun 14, 2:41pm -
    • An Interview with Judith Orloff, MD: The Power of Surrender
      Judith Orloff, M.D. is a psychiatrist, intuitive healer, and NY Times bestselling author. Her most recent book is the national bestseller The Ecstasy of Surrender: 12 Surprising Ways Letting Go Can Empower Your Life. In this interview, Judith explain…
      - 2 Jun 14, 11:08am -
    • What No One Teaches Us About Love
      Fear of intimacy isn’t a character flaw rendering us unfit for intimacy; it is part of being human. If we're breathing, we have fear of intimacy. The real question is: How do we keep love at arms length-and what can we do to change that?
      - 1 Mar 14, 12:01pm -
    • The Power of the Gifts We Hide
      Each of us creates a “false self” to protect our “true self” when it feels frightening to be genuine in the world. If our false self becomes dominant, it begins to bury the very qualities it was originally designed to protect. These buried qu…
      - 17 Dec 13, 11:59am -
    • The Two Best Questions For Your Sex Life
      Often, the questions we ask of ourselves are what finally carve the shape of our lives. A great question excites us, opens new doors, and invites both compassion and curiosity. I’d like to offer two such questions about sex. Your answers will teach…
      - 18 Nov 13, 12:04pm -
    • Creating an Intimacy-Rich Life: A Journey In Three Stages
      In my practice as a psychotherapist, I’ve observed a remarkable pattern in the lives of people who strive for healthy intimacy. This pattern is marked by three important--and often surprising—stages. Each stage is a mark of real progress, yet few…
      - 21 Oct 13, 2:17pm -


    • Dating Dilemma
      The Question: “Rori, It would be fantastic if you could help me with my small dating dilemma: how to get a man’s attention? How can I make him notice me considering that there are loads of women in the same room. I don’t know if I could make th…
      - 1 day ago, 4 May 15, 1:03pm -
    • If You’re Going To Play BIG – You’re Going To Meet Haters – What To Do…
      I get about three “hate mails” a day – have since the beginning of “Rori Raye.” This is about how to not have to READ it, not have to deal with it, how to embrace it instead of fight it, and how to lessen the stress and impact of it on your…
      - 5 days ago, 30 Apr 15, 1:00pm -
    • Is He Just A Friend?
      The Question: “Rori, I need some major advice. I’ve been seeing this guy since July, we go out together we go to eat, we talk everyday – all day while he at work – but now all the sudden he says he looks at as if I was just a friend and not s…
      - 8 days ago, 27 Apr 15, 1:15pm -
    • Get Free Coaching From My Amazing New Coaches NOW!
      Hi, This is Rori, Get great coaching from my new, amazing RRRCT Trainees Right NOW! These new coaches are available to you right now because they’re in the Business Siren-BIZ Module of RRRCT. There are another 10 new coaches who’ve graduated from…
      - 12 days ago, 23 Apr 15, 1:22pm -
    • Do I Just “Go” With Whatever He Says?
      The Question: Sophia asks, “If I let go of the boy energy, does that mean I just accept and go with whatever the man I’m with decides?” My Answer: Yes. Isn’t that amazing? I just said yes to what seems like a distinctly anti-feminist suggesti…
      - 15 days ago, 20 Apr 15, 5:04pm -
    • 8 Steps To Turn Your Feminine Energy Into ACTION!
      Hi, This is Rori, and right now – you’re going to be Channeling energy, power, and FUN: 1. Write down all the things in the world that matter to you – that have NOTHING to do with a man. It can be World Peace, it can be growing your business, i…
      - 22 days ago, 13 Apr 15, 1:16pm -
    • 3 Options If You’re With A Man Who Doesn’t Love Love You
      The Question: “Rori, I have been dating Don for seven months. He makes me feel like the focus of his life. In fact he says he thinks of little else but me all day long. He takes me out often, pays for dates, and we have a lot of passionate cuddles.…
      - 26 days ago, 10 Apr 15, 3:53am -
    • A Devastating Breakup Out Of Nowhere…
      The Question: Marlene said, “I just broke up from a four year relationship. He became angry one morning and said the relationship was not working for him. No fights. No arguments. I moved out. He will not see me or talk to me. Says I hurt him. He s…
      - 33 days ago, 3 Apr 15, 3:54am -
    • A Dream Job With Dream Men
      This is exactly what we’re working on in my Have It All Teleclass Membership – How Being A Girl can work for you in business. This great story is from Sarah: Dear Rori, I’m using all your tools for my personal relationships challenges. Currentl…
      - 36 days ago, 30 Mar 15, 1:46pm -
    • Can I Love Someone Who Doesn’t Care For Me?
      The answer is, simply, for me, a resounding NO. Yes, I can feel “love” in the form of Chemistry and Lust (not a “bad” thing!) Yes, I can feel “love” in the universal sense of us “all being one.” Yes, I can feel “love” in the way I…
      - 40 days ago, 26 Mar 15, 1:30pm -


    • Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience
      The other day my girlfriend called up to regale me with yet another of her single and fabulous stories. This one involved cocktails, a hot tub and a couple of sexy strangers. It reminded me of my own single days, and for that matter my own pair of se…
      - 49 days ago, 18 Mar 15, 7:00am -
    • Why He Doesn't Think You're Fat
      By now, the whole “Honey, do I look fat in this?” scene has been fully unmasked as the farce it is, useful today only as a reference to stand-up comic hacks. But be aware that the sentiment behind it lives on in more modern variations, including:…
      - 52 days ago, 15 Mar 15, 7:00am -
    • Are We Being Drama Queens? Find Out if You're Overreacting in Your Relationship
      Drama Queen: a woman who is over-emotional, irrational and over-the-top with her reactions and interpretations of behavior and events; emotionally high-maintenance.Personally, I hate labels, and “drama queen” is the worst, especially coming…
      - 53 days ago, 14 Mar 15, 7:00am -