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  • NewFighting: Threat and Damage as Ineffective Communication
    Winning is sharing. The biomental child development perspective says: “for you to win, your opposer also must win."
    - 3 hours ago, 30 Aug 16, 5:44pm -
  • 5 Ways to Finesse a Difficult End of Your Relationship
    Endings present a psychological challenge unless they’re mutually negotiated. These 5 tips, based in part on a new group dynamics paper, provide some guidance for your goodbyes.
    - 5 hours ago, 30 Aug 16, 3:43pm -
  • Criticism, Avoidance, and Negativity: How They Destroy Love
    Tired of the toxic thoughts and fighting? Here is how to stop the toxic criticism, avoidance, and negativity.
    - 6 hours ago, 30 Aug 16, 3:11pm -
  • Is Sexual Generosity a Virtue?
    Generosity is very valuable for our well-being and health. Is this also true concerning sexual generosity? Should we aim to be more sexually generous?
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  • “Date Someone Your Own Size”
    Couples who vary in weight experience more prejudice, receive advice to not date in public, and are rated as less likable, according to new research from California.
    - 13 hours ago, 30 Aug 16, 7:44am -
  • Reconciling as Parents
    Can divorced parents act like parents, not spurned lovers? These women found a way.
    - 23 hours ago, 29 Aug 16, 9:34pm -
  • Dating a Man Who Is Separated but Not Yet Divorced?
    There are many factors that can affect these triangulated relationships and how they are combined can affect the outcome in different ways.
    - 1 day ago, 29 Aug 16, 8:00pm -
  • The Lesson I Learned About Living From Someone Dying
    Gord Downie of the Tragically Hip has terminal brain cancer but taught us all a lesson during his cross-Canada tour.
    - 1 day ago, 29 Aug 16, 6:18pm -
  • 8 Traits of Toxic People
    Sometime in your life you will come across a toxic person. You know, those people who seem to need your help and then proceed to take advantage of you through manipulation. Beware.
    - 1 day ago, 29 Aug 16, 5:12pm -
  • How Long Should You Wait for a Partner?
    I’ve looked to science, asked relationship experts, talked to friends (both married and unmarried) for better answers. What I’ve found is that there isn’t one.
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  • NewBeautiful Scars
    My first foray into #RomanticTuesday created by Erika Kind.  Check out her great blog by clicking he
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  • NewNot a friend with benefits! 
    Since I haven’t heard anything more from G*,I’m back to my normal state of being a datin
    - 8 mins ago, 30 Aug 16, 8:36pm -
  • NewMy New Job

    My New Job

    Hey guys! Long time no talk! Man, I am sorry to have neglected you all for so long. I really needed
    - 12 mins ago, 30 Aug 16, 8:32pm -
  • NewCracking.
    Why does everyone always say college is the best years of your life? Because right now I am one week
    - 13 mins ago, 30 Aug 16, 8:31pm -
  • NewI'm Happiest In My Dreams, Where We're Still Together

    I'm Happiest In My Dreams, Where We're Still Together

    NASA The dreams that include you are always happy – those where I do not want to wake up from, night
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  • NewTraveller waits
    Traveller, Robert E. Lee’s beloved horse, is waiting outside of the Lee Chapel & Museum. W
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  • NewWhat Makes Your Partner 'Secretly Happy,' Based On Their Zodiac Sign

    What Makes Your Partner 'Secretly Happy,' Based On Their Zodiac Sign Aries (March 21st to April 19th) Doing about twenty different things (successfully) at
    - 21 mins ago, 30 Aug 16, 8:23pm -
  • NewAdvice Column: He's Just Not Into You

    Advice Column: He's Just Not Into You

    Dear Ghetto Genius, I would like to remain anonymous in this email. And I’m hoping for a bit o
    - 28 mins ago, 30 Aug 16, 8:16pm -
  • NewGo Hard For The Right One
    Hello Everyone!!! Today I would like to talk with you all about a serious problem that is happening
    - 29 mins ago, 30 Aug 16, 8:15pm -
  • NewWhen I Write About All Things Heartbreak

    When I Write About All Things Heartbreak

    Doug Robichaud I was 7 when I started making lists inside my head random words plummeting like raind
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  • The Six Steps to Sacred Citizenship
    According to Stephen Dinan, author of the Sacred America, there are six steps each of us can take that create world-change and personal joy. Here are those six steps:
    - 56 days ago, 6 Jul 16, 2:53am -
  • The 2 Questions You Have to Ask About Your Relationship
    This simple exercise will lead you to greater intimacy, joy and healing in your most important relationships.
    - 80 days ago, 11 Jun 16, 7:14pm -
  • Losing Love—and Finding It Again
    My extraordinary father recently passed away at 90. How he freed himself from hate’s grip, healed his relationship with me, and reclaimed his love for his wife is a story of hope.
    - 13 May 16, 1:28pm -
  • A Research-Backed Recipe for Deep Romance on Valentines Day
    These two exercises are a research-backed recipe for a profoundly romantic Valentine’s Day; they will deepen your long-term bond, reduce stress, and even improve your day-after!
    - 13 Feb 16, 4:46pm -
  • An Intimacy Micro-Meditation For Your New Year
    Recognizing the value of the intimacy gifts we have already is one of the greatest ways to improve our lives. This short practice will help you discover your own intimacy gifts.
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  • Three Liberating Insights For Single People
    Here are the three most liberating insights I know for single people. Follow them, and you’ll change the course of your dating life in surprising and wonderful ways.
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  • A Life-Changing Exercise for Anyone Who Has Lost a Loved One
    Perhaps the greatest secret to a love-filled life is to cherish the relationships we already have--including relationships with those who have passed. Here is a simple yet profoundly healing exercise for anyone who has lost a loved one.
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  • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
    If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
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  • The Simple Exercise That Will Lead You Toward Love
    The path to love is never simple. When we decide to pursue our longing for love, we’re led down a path with challenges we might never have dreamed of. For me, the decision to become a father—as a forty-something, single gay man---is what changed…
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  • 3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts That Hold You Back
    This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity, a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voic…
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  • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
    I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
    - 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -
  • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
    In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
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  • From Toxic In Love To Simply Loved
    Essentially, intimacy is scary. For some of us, it’s terrifying. Going with a man who doesn’t light our fire, yet offers us true intimacy is a very confusing thing. Staying away from a man who lights our fire but doesn’t offer or want true inti…
    - 3 days ago, 27 Aug 16, 5:58pm -
  • When He’s On the Attack…
    This is what Feeling Messages are made for! When a man says something that makes you feel something you don’t want to feel – bad, mad, sad – the first thing we all want to do is: Shutdown. And when we shutdown, we shut him down, too. We shut do…
    - 10 days ago, 20 Aug 16, 7:28pm -
  • Are You On Your Path To Love?
    Let’s say: “You are on the path of your divine nature.” And – What does that mean? If you live a faith-based life, that makes sense to you, and if your life philosophy is more “existential,” it may sound like “hooey.” So – let me ex…
    - 18 days ago, 12 Aug 16, 6:39pm -
  • A Success Story From Nancy
    Dear Rori and Coach Michelle Manley, I felt moved to share with you a lovely new relationship I’ve found myself in with a man 10 years younger than myself. I met him online and there was instant ‘attraction’. Yet, in our conversation he proved…
    - 28 days ago, 2 Aug 16, 1:42pm -
  • If You Think He’s “Using” You – And You’re Still There – Do This…
    The Question: I have been seeing this man now for almost 5 yrs..on/off…I feel that he is just using me for his own benefit…You say get out there and start do you do this when you are emotionally attached. I feel I need to be home wh…
    - 32 days ago, 30 Jul 16, 1:36am -
  • Your Inner Tribe
    This post is sort of a question. It’s not about looking outside to create your outer “tribe.” Instead, the question is – “What’s your ‘inner tribe’ like?” Essentially, it’s our inner tribe that shows up as our outer tribe. All the…
    - 36 days ago, 25 Jul 16, 1:42pm -
  • When He’s “Nice” – How To Make Him More Dangerous
    Here’s a comment I’m going to jump off of – it came from the post about Dangerous or “Nice” men… The Question: “Rori, I am kind of dating the stereotypical nice guy, low testosterone, borderline feminine/passive, and it’s been a strug…
    - 40 days ago, 21 Jul 16, 1:19pm -
  • Is He “On” Or Is He “Off”?
    The Question: Dear Rori, I have bought 3 of your programs. Commitment Blueprint, Have The Relationship You Want and Love Scripts. Love Scripts really helped me get in tuned with how I feel and I sense the difference in myself. People compliment me on…
    - 43 days ago, 18 Jul 16, 1:21pm -
  • Is He Emotionally Competent?
    I came across this “term” in an article and wanted to jump off of it: “Emotional competency” is defined as: an individual’s ability to handle certain events and stresses on an emotional level. So – what the heck does THAT mean? Who gets t…
    - 47 days ago, 14 Jul 16, 1:20pm -
  • The Theme Park Of YOU – StuckLand
    A note about stuckness: Do you feel like you’re stuck on one ride in your Theme Park? Playing one role in your art work? Stuck with one media, one trick, one way, one man, one anything? Do you feel like you always go to the same PLACE in you? the s…
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  • Nicki Minaj And Meek Mill Wedding Plans
    It hasn’t been 100 percent confirmed that Meek Mill and Nicki Minaj are engaged, but Nicki certainly has marriage on her mind. She just asked her Twitter followers to choose between a beach wedding and a church wedding, and it would be strange if s…
    - 28 Dec 15, 9:52am -
  • Dear NwaVic: My Long-Distance Girlfriend Visits Her Male Friend at His House till Nighttime
    Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I’m currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to se…
    - 25 Nov 15, 6:21am -
  • Online Dating II Your First Impression
                                                     Found on: Internet dating is very common and more and more popular these days. Of course, first thing you notice on someone’s profile where you make your f…
    - 28 Oct 15, 11:09pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: How to Get the Best Out of Your Wedding Vendors
    Aloha! As promised, as a sequel to the post on how to retain awesome vendors, here’s how to get the best of of your wedding vendors both in quality and quantity.  1. Be Nice! First things first. Once you choose your vendors, you should endeav…
    - 26 Oct 15, 5:05am -
  • The Fallacy About Feminism By Victor Terhemba
    In the present world order, the world thrives on hypocrisy and blackmail. We were all humans until ………… These days we are blackmailed with virtually everything, making the victim look like the aggressor. For example, because you are a born ag…
    - 17 Oct 15, 11:33am -
  • Corporate Social Responsibility
    Before anyone goes further in wondering what this is all about, I’ll like to be permitted to bring a little public relations into the scene. …………….. In the context of public relations, Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) is a societal f…
    - 17 Oct 15, 10:52am -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Tips on How to Choose Your Bridal Party
    The Squad.  The Clique.  The Leading Ladies and Gents.  The A-Team.  The Support Group.  The Hype-Men and Women.  ……..That’s what they are to you. But to the rest of the world, they are your bridal party…They are the men and women who g…
    - 17 Sep 15, 3:06am -
  • Pastor Chris Okotie Is Not A Pastor – Emeka Ike
    It would seem this two would soon start throwing punches, the war between Emeka Ike and Rev. Pastor Chris Okotie, is still on as Emeka has responded to Pastor Chris’s comments He said “I think his (Okotie’s) comment is a clear indication that h…
    - 7 Sep 15, 9:51am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
    Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
    - 21 Aug 15, 10:30am -
  • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
    Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
    - 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
    So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
    - 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
  • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
    It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
    - 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
  • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
    Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
    - 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
    I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
    - 24 Jul 15, 11:46am -
  • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
    The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
    - 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
    Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
    - 17 Jul 15, 5:12pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
    When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
    - 16 Jul 15, 2:33pm -
  • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
    Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
    - 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
  • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
    Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
    - 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
    Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
    - 10 Jul 15, 12:14pm -