RELATIONSHIP TIPS

  • Adoptive Parents and Adoption Reunions
    Rather than being threatened by an adult adopted son’s or daughter’s desire for reunion, adoptive parents should welcome it as a way to strengthen their family bond and to open up the possibility of a more extended family linking adoptive and…
    - 6 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 10:21pm -
  • Goodbye Summer 2014
    As the summer of 2014 is coming to a close, most teens are back into the swing of classes, clubs, athletics, and various extra-curricular events. Many teens are excited to be back in their old routine. Returning to school is a time they get to see th…
    - 6 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 9:30pm -
  • Good Resources for Dealing With Narcissism
    If you or someone you know has narcissistic habits like dismissive listening, believing "it's all about me," or quickness to anger in response to criticism, check out these resources.read more
    - 6 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 9:29pm -
  • Domestic Violence and Child Abuse in the NFL
    Many people feel that those who become abusive need "anger management," but I believe they need "shame management." read more
    - 8 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 8:14pm -
  • Say and Mean These Three Words To Fall Back in Love
    Do you long for that feeling of being in love again? Don't just say "I love you." You need to first say this to fall back in love.read more
    - 9 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 7:07pm -
  • Good Sex Without Intercourse
    Satisfying sex need not be abandoned due to any physical challenge.read more
    - 10 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 5:55pm -
  • At What Age Do We Experience the Most Rejection?
    Over 200 people responded to a survey asking when in life they experienced the most rejection. Here’s what they had to say:read more
    - 11 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 4:49pm -
  • Making Relationships Last Past The Honeymoon Period
    The honeymoon period is a celebration of your compatibilities. Following it, you slowly and inefficiently start getting your ducks in order for negotiating the inevitable incompatibilities, a hard time for guessing how much compatibility you'll end u…
    - 11 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 4:27pm -
  • Why Women Are Rejecting “Perfect” Men
    Men should not strive to stay out of trouble. We should strive to be the best men we can be. Only then are we worthy of women’s love.read more
    - 1 day ago, 19 Sep 14, 2:14am -
  • Violence: Beyond the Sidelines
    In the last two years, over a dozen events involving NFL players have been associated with domestic violence.read more
    - 1 day ago, 18 Sep 14, 11:16pm -

ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONSHIP FOR REAL MEN

    FINDING LOVE

    • Lady Valor: Kristin Beck, gender-role freedom and love
      Lady Valor, airing this Thursday, is an inspiring CNN documentary about transgender activist Kristin Beck. As a decorated Navy Seal, Christopher Beck crossed enemy lines to fight for freedom. As Kristin, she crosses equally scary enemy lines; the gen…
      - 18 days ago, 1 Sep 14, 4:07pm -
    • 2 Ideas That Will Change The Way You Think About Romance
      The majority of dating advice subtly guides us away from authentic intimacy. In its superficial fixation on looks, games and gimmicks, such advice sparks insecurity and encourages unkindness toward ourselves and others. According to exciting research…
      - 33 days ago, 18 Aug 14, 2:00pm -
    • A Simple Question That Will Change Your Search for Love
      Most advice on seeking love focuses on the skills of seeking, not the skills of loving. Apps, events and websites offer endless opportunities to meet, but until we learn how to choose healthy intimacy and nurture its tender new shoots, it’s unlikel…
      - 82 days ago, 30 Jun 14, 2:41pm -
    • An Interview with Judith Orloff, MD: The Power of Surrender
      Judith Orloff, M.D. is a psychiatrist, intuitive healer, and NY Times bestselling author. Her most recent book is the national bestseller The Ecstasy of Surrender: 12 Surprising Ways Letting Go Can Empower Your Life. In this interview, Judith explain…
      - 2 Jun 14, 11:08am -
    • What No One Teaches Us About Love
      Fear of intimacy isn’t a character flaw rendering us unfit for intimacy; it is part of being human. If we're breathing, we have fear of intimacy. The real question is: How do we keep love at arms length-and what can we do to change that? read more
      - 1 Mar 14, 12:01pm -
    • The Power of the Gifts We Hide
      Each of us creates a “false self” to protect our “true self” when it feels frightening to be genuine in the world. If our false self becomes dominant, it begins to bury the very qualities it was originally designed to protect. These buried qu…
      - 17 Dec 13, 11:59am -
    • The Two Best Questions For Your Sex Life
      Often, the questions we ask of ourselves are what finally carve the shape of our lives. A great question excites us, opens new doors, and invites both compassion and curiosity. I’d like to offer two such questions about sex. Your answers will teach…
      - 18 Nov 13, 12:04pm -
    • Creating an Intimacy-Rich Life: A Journey In Three Stages
      In my practice as a psychotherapist, I’ve observed a remarkable pattern in the lives of people who strive for healthy intimacy. This pattern is marked by three important--and often surprising—stages. Each stage is a mark of real progress, yet few…
      - 21 Oct 13, 2:17pm -
    • Three Mindfulness Exercises to Improve Your Dating Life
      The search for a loving partner is one of our great life-tasks. Yet most dating advice is superficial; focusing endlessly upon the power of seduction and flat abs. Here are three exercises which approach dating as an adventure of self-discovery. They…
      - 31 Aug 13, 2:31pm -
    • Seduction Strategies Don't Lead to Love—These Skills Do
      The search for love is one of our greatest life-tasks. Unfortunately, the quality of much dating advice and the atmosphere of most dating venues ranges from superficial to downright demeaning. The skills of dating are the skills of intimacy—not gam…
      - 2 Aug 13, 11:57am -
    • Why Coming Out Isn't Just For Gay People
      Jason Collins’ coming out electrified the country—for more than political reasons. Everyone wrestles with the struggle between fear and authenticity. Coming out is an act of heroism we're all called to—and you don’t have to be gay to join the…
      - 5 May 13, 1:27pm -
    • From Demeaning Rules to Intimacy Tools: A Wiser Path to Love
      Valentines Day can be a challenging day for single people. But it can become a day of hope--if we resolve to ignore the bankrupt dating advice foisted upon us and finally align our search for love with the tools of real intimacy. The following three…
      - 14 Feb 13, 7:34pm -

    HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT

    • So Much Stuff On My Facebook Page
      I’m generally not much about Facebook (and hardly ever refer anyone there)… …and, yet, I see that in this new world, getting “FB likes” and “shares” equals “getting heard…” Messages come from everywhere… Here are some beautiful…
      - 6 hours ago, 19 Sep 14, 10:10pm -
    • What Part Of “Housework” Is “Feminine”?
      Here’s a great letter from Sara about what constitutes “femininity” – is it in the “eye of the beholder…”?: The Question: “Hi Rori and everyone, I would love to hear from you Rori on this, I have got all your programs and think you ar…
      - 4 days ago, 15 Sep 14, 10:25pm -
    • Free Coaching With My New Rori Raye Coach Trainees!
      Here’re the new RRRCT 2014 Coach Trainees – and you can get coached for free by any or all of them! Check out their websites (all very new…), see who you’d like to try out – and contact them directly. Some have scheduling software already,…
      - 17 days ago, 3 Sep 14, 6:04am -
    • Sexual Meditation Helps Everything
      Here is what I see: As long as we are feeling separate from ourselves and others – no amount of talking about “opening up” will help. We have to do the Tools… Here’s how to use the Sensual Meditation from the Have The Relationship You Want…
      - 21 days ago, 29 Aug 14, 8:33pm -
    • An Interview With Rori
      Rori, what is it you do as a relationship coach? I teach women (and men) — whether they’re in a relationship now or want to be in a relationship — how to transform their love lives practically overnight by learning to communicate in completely…
      - 29 days ago, 22 Aug 14, 3:45pm -
    • Love Forever Live Today at 11am PDT!
      In just a few hours – get your personal questions answered by me, live, in the newest Love Forever teleseminar! ***If you have a personal relationship question or situation you’d like me to address, just sign up for “Love Forever” anytime bef…
      - 30 days ago, 21 Aug 14, 1:00pm -
    • Circular Dating When Your Man’s Got Job Problems
      The Question: Have dated Brian for 14 months. He lost his job due to a take over (not his fault all upper management lost their jobs) and was unemployed for 5 months which caused havoc with his finances as he pays hefty child support. We survived thi…
      - 33 days ago, 18 Aug 14, 1:47pm -
    • Why Circular Dating Is Not A Risk
      Okay – I’ve heard this SO many times: He does “all that” – the integrating of his life with yours, calling you his girlfriend, giving you a good amount of time and energy, the calling…and then at 8 to 10 months – or a year and 1/2 – h…
      - 40 days ago, 11 Aug 14, 1:51pm -
    • Gluten,Thyroid And Energy – My Story
      For me – after dealing holistically – impressively and mostly successfully with a painful auto-immune disease called Interstitial Cystitis and then GERD – I simply could not overcome my energy drain. I’d considered it my “normal” for so m…
      - 43 days ago, 7 Aug 14, 7:01pm -
    • Does Plenty Of Fish Work For Anyone? Or Is It All “Booty Calls”?
      Here’s a letter about www.PlentyOfFish.com – a dating site (free – and known often as POF) that some women I’ve spoken with have great personal stories around, and others see this way: “Dear Rori, I feel that I so so need to correct you on…
      - 47 days ago, 3 Aug 14, 8:32pm -

    LOVE BLOG FOR WOMEN

    • Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience
      The other day my girlfriend called up to regale me with yet another of her single and fabulous stories. This one involved cocktails, a hot tub and a couple of sexy strangers. It reminded me of my own single days, and for that matter my own pair of se…
      - 19 Mar 14, 7:05am -
    • 25 Universal Truths About Men
      Most of the time, it’s smart to stay away from making generalizations about “the unfamiliar.” But sometimes there’s truth in these statements and men can certainly fall into this category for us. That’s why Relationship Doctor Bob Grant ris…
      - 27 Feb 14, 8:00am -
    • Why Women Feel More Attached after Sex than Men
      Could your hormones be the reason you feel close to him after sex? Find out what effect the hormone oxytocin could be having on your relationships and sex life.
      - 25 Feb 14, 8:00am -

    JAGUDA: RELATIONSHIP

    • 6 Reasons Why Being Single Pretty Much Sucks

      6 Reasons Why Being Single Pretty Much Sucks

      Being single whether by choice or by circumstance has its benefits. Many some might add, but being single also has its down sides, and quite a bit if you ask me. No one here is encouraging you to start running after every partner you can…
      - 3 days ago, 17 Sep 14, 12:09pm -
    • Do You think it is Hard to Find a Good Man in Nigeria? Read what Ali Baba Thinks

      Do You think it is Hard to Find a Good Man in Nigeria? Read what Ali Baba Thinks

      Comedian Ali Baba shares this write up on his Facebook page about the Nigerian woman and finding Mr Right. Read Below…   “I have a serious matter at hand that I want to share. In fact, I should have shared this long ago, but the prim…
      - 4 days ago, 16 Sep 14, 10:37am -
    • 9 Things Guys Do That Absolutely Annoy Women

      9 Things Guys Do That Absolutely Annoy Women

      What do they say? Men are from mars and women from Venus? Yes. Men and women might never fully understand each other, but we’ll have to come to accept that. What we do want to do however is try not to annoy each other too much, and that…
      - 9 days ago, 11 Sep 14, 10:11am -
    • Dear NwaVic, I Got Engaged and My Friends Disappeared

      Dear NwaVic, I Got Engaged and My Friends Disappeared

      Dear NwaVic, I decided to write you today because I know you are also engaged as well.  My fiance proposed to me earlier this year. I was so excited. I love him and my friends all seemed to love him. But then just like magic, they starte…
      - 10 days ago, 9 Sep 14, 5:51pm -
    • 11 Signs That You Are Totally In Love

      11 Signs That You Are Totally In Love

      We all love to love! Who doesn’t like to love? Well some dont. But interestingly enough, most of us don’t even know when we’re falling in love. Here are some signs you’re definitely falling in love. 1) You forget about your ex Thi…
      - 25 days ago, 26 Aug 14, 11:46am -
    • Dear NwaVic, I Want to See my Wife With Someone Else

      Dear NwaVic, I Want to See my Wife With Someone Else

      Dear NwaVic, So yes, I am turning to the Internet as my wife and I have discussed the idea of her being with another man. I saw a few of your comments and didn’t know if you may feel comfortable entertaining a few questions about your t…
      - 32 days ago, 18 Aug 14, 10:16pm -
    • 8 Tips On Pulling Off A Successful One Night Stand

      8 Tips On Pulling Off A Successful One Night Stand

      If you’re not one of those holier than thou people then please keep your comments to yourself. For the rest of you read on… If you haven’t had a one night stand before, don’t worry, we have some tips for you on how to pull one off…
      - 44 days ago, 6 Aug 14, 6:44pm -
    • 7 Marriage Truths You Will Not Hear in the Church

      7 Marriage Truths You Will Not Hear in the Church

      I came across this article yesterday, thanks to my FB friend Julia. It is written by Frank Powell on his blog. He runs a great blog, by the way. In light of a similar article I penned, this article is very much on-point. By reading, I lea…
      - 50 days ago, 31 Jul 14, 5:16pm -
    • Dear NwaVic, My Christian Girlfriend says my Religion is a Dealbreaker

      Dear NwaVic, My Christian Girlfriend says my Religion is a Dealbreaker

        Dear NwaVic, I was a player few years ago but when my brother returned from the UK, he wanted me to change and I did so. So when he returned to the Uk, he (my bro) introduced me to a girl in the UK who happens to be a very good friend…
      - 53 days ago, 29 Jul 14, 3:01pm -
    • Proposing To Your Future Husband; Would You Do It?

      Proposing To Your Future Husband; Would You Do It?

      So the trend has been catching on recently, and there’s been a few pictures floating around with woman proposing to their future husbands and life partners etc. Now the discussion has gone in all kinds of directions recently on social m…
      - 54 days ago, 28 Jul 14, 6:18am -
    • Are You Ready to Move in Together? 8 Signs To Show You’re?

      Are You Ready to Move in Together?  8 Signs To Show You’re?

      8 Signs You’re Ready to Move in Together … If you’ve been with your boyfriend for a while, you may be looking for signs you’re ready to move in together. This is a big step with a lot of things to consider. To help you make sure,…
      - 54 days ago, 27 Jul 14, 5:03pm -
    • Dear NwaVic, After 2 years, Is it time to give up on my ex?

      Dear NwaVic, After 2 years, Is it time to give up on my ex?

      Dear NwaVic, I am in love with a girl named Peace. I asked her out but she didn’t accept for the main time so I gave it a break for sometime. Then, my friend who knew that I love this girl came and asked me if she is available. I gav…
      - 73 days ago, 9 Jul 14, 3:36pm -
    • Is Love Enough?

      Is Love Enough?

      In a nutshell. Hell NO!! Don’t worry I was one of those guys that dreamt, that preyed, that wished it was so. That meeting the right person would dissolve any issues of conflict, fighting or heaven forbid a staleness of passion for each…
      - 74 days ago, 8 Jul 14, 3:40pm -
    • 5 Signs That She’s Too Young For You Bruh!

      5 Signs That She’s Too Young For You Bruh!

      You’ve been there before. You’re in your late twenties and you meet the hot chick you think might be right for you. But hold on bro, she just might be too young for you no matter how much you think you like dating younger girls. Plus…
      - 74 days ago, 8 Jul 14, 12:20pm -
    • ‘Half Of A Yellow Sun’ Finally Approved! Watch Clips and Check Out Images from the Film

      ‘Half Of A Yellow Sun’ Finally Approved! Watch Clips and  Check Out Images from the Film

      Various Nigerian press outlets and journalists (via Twitter) are reporting that Biyi Bandele’s “Half Of A Yellow Sun” – a film adaptation of celebrated author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s Orange Prize-winning novel of the sam…
      - 76 days ago, 6 Jul 14, 5:01am -
    • Toke Moments: Have You Met a Man with a Fish-Brain?

      Toke Moments: Have You Met a Man with a Fish-Brain?

      Well to the readers have you? Met a man with Fish-Brain? Or even a woman? We haven’t but maybe Toke Makinwa has. She’s really on a rant on this one, but it’s funny though.
      - 80 days ago, 2 Jul 14, 3:03pm -
    • Relationship Advise from Lami Philips (read)

      Relationship Advise from Lami Philips (read)

      The soul singer Lami, took to Facebook to share with young women her thoughts on relationships. Read below…    
      - 93 days ago, 19 Jun 14, 12:42pm -
    • Dear NwaVic, Should I Tell My Friend Her “Diamond” Engagement Ring is Fake?

      Dear NwaVic, Should I Tell My Friend Her “Diamond” Engagement Ring is Fake?

      Dear NwaVic, I have secretly read your blog for a while now and never thought I would be writing you. But I need input and loved your response when you responded to the letter from the girl who wanted to tell her friend she was marrying…
      - 9 Jun 14, 2:36pm -
    • When is the Right Time to ‘Give it Up’ in a Relationship? |Battabox Video

      When is the Right Time to ‘Give it Up’ in a Relationship? |Battabox Video

      When is the right time to “give it up” in a relationship? 2weeks? 5months? Or a year? The Battabox crew went on the streets of Lagos to ask residents how soon they expect to have sex in a relationship. The significance of the wait…
      - 29 May 14, 2:32pm -
    • Toke Moments Vlog: How To Be The Next Kim Kardashian West | Seriously?

      Toke Moments Vlog: How To Be The Next Kim Kardashian West | Seriously?

      Toke Makinwa’s vlog this week is all about discovering your inner Kim Kardashian-West. Gotta add the West as she’s now married to Kanye West. I get what Toke is saying, and the idea of the vlog this week about self esteem, knowing you…
      - 29 May 14, 11:14am -