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  • NewI Miss My Mom
    What to do if your mother is emotionally unstable.
    - 2 hours ago, 24 Feb 17, 10:23pm -
  • Unselfish Singles: They Give More Time, Money, and Care
    Studies based on tens of thousands of participants show that the stereotype of the self-centered single person is exactly wrong. Singles are more giving than married people.
    - 14 hours ago, 24 Feb 17, 9:39am -
  • Why Millennials Are Lonely
    Mysteriously, loneliness appears most prevalent among millennials. I see two compounding explanations.
    - 21 hours ago, 24 Feb 17, 3:09am -
  • Altering the ‘Work’ Experience
    How behavioral outlook shapes our drive. When old attitudes backfire, developing new ones becomes crucial.
    - 23 hours ago, 24 Feb 17, 1:02am -
  • Love Thy Enemy... as a Public Relations Blessing
    Rather than fear what your enemies say, if they act like buffoons cry, "Send in the clowns."
    - 1 day ago, 23 Feb 17, 10:51pm -
  • Defining Love, the Cold Hard Truth
    What is your definition of love today?
    - 1 day ago, 23 Feb 17, 6:18pm -
  • 5 Ways to Spring Clean Your Social Media Clutter
    The clocks will soon "spring forward" for many of us—that means it's a great time to prepare for the loss of an hour by streamlining your electronic social networks.
    - 1 day ago, 23 Feb 17, 4:36pm -
  • Remembering Jodi Arias: Poster Girl for Narcissism
    Jodi Arias reminds us we overuse the word “Narcissist,” and this serious diagnosis should never be just a slur for people who’ve hurt us, or who we don’t like.
    - 1 day ago, 23 Feb 17, 3:52pm -
  • Can Punctuality Ruin Love?
    There are good reasons for considering punctuality to be a virtue. Is it also a romantic virtue? There are reasons to think it is not.
    - 1 day ago, 23 Feb 17, 1:18pm -
  • Learning to Manage Emotions Boosts Children's Well-being
    Schools lay the groundwork for cognitive development, especially in academic areas. But what about emotional development?
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  • NewHow to Build Solid Relationships with Other Christians
    Have you ever stopped to count all the ways your life influences the lives around you? How many peop
    - 1 min ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:54pm -
  • NewDay 3: To single or not to single?
    I’m currently single and I am okay with it. But of course, there’s the little bug of lon
    - 1 min ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:54pm -
  • NewTrue Friendship

    True Friendship

      True Friendship Friendship during the sunshine in our lives is easy, But when the big storm h
    - 4 mins ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:51pm -
  • NewLacuna Misplaced
    Lacuna Misplaced is a short story I wrote in 2016 for my publisher, Endever Publishing Studios. The
    - 7 mins ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:48pm -
  • NewVenting Stars
    In truth, let the words simply be words, For they are a poor medium to express my mind, To shine lig
    - 11 mins ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:44pm -
  • NewI'd rather kill myself than stay in a loveless relationship

    I'd rather kill myself than stay in a loveless relationship

      “Everybody knows how to love but few people know how to stay in love.” -Anon My partner Huber
    - 15 mins ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:40pm -
  • NewBroken - a poem about..........
    My heart is now broken, Because of words spoken. They were a complete fake, An ill conceived stupid
    - 15 mins ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:40pm -
  • NewTravel Or A Relationship: Why Do Women Have To Choose?

    Travel Or A Relationship: Why Do Women Have To Choose?

    The Blog Abroad I’m not a man-hater most days, but I am fiercely independent. So when I get regular
    - 21 mins ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:34pm -
  • NewInception
    Written by Jacob Ibrag I’ve seen the end and the devastation and yet, I haven’t felt it.
    - 26 mins ago, 24 Feb 17, 11:29pm -
    I caught myself staring up at the stars again Hoping that they had the answers for me Listening to l
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  • The Key to a Good Sex Life— "Sexual Growth Beliefs"
    There is a research-based key to better sex and relationships. But it flies in the face of almost everything we've been taught.
    - 60 days ago, 26 Dec 16, 4:43pm -
  • Trump, Love, and the Presidency
    As a psychotherapist specializing in the search for intimacy, I note the striking parallels between the ways we choose a life-mate and the way we choose our president.
    - 7 Nov 16, 5:00am -
  • The 2 Things You Need to Find in Any Partner
    The way we approach dating determines the kind of love we are likely to find.
    - 31 Oct 16, 7:20pm -
  • Why Popular Dating Advice Is Keeping You Single
    Popular dating advice consistently leads single people away from the very love they are seeking. Research explains why this is and what to do about it.
    - 10 Sep 16, 1:18pm -
  • The Six Steps to Sacred Citizenship
    According to Stephen Dinan, author of the Sacred America, there are six steps each of us can take that create world-change and personal joy. Here are those six steps:
    - 6 Jul 16, 2:53am -
  • The 2 Questions You Have to Ask About Your Relationship
    This simple exercise will lead you to greater intimacy, joy and healing in your most important relationships.
    - 11 Jun 16, 7:14pm -
  • Losing Love—and Finding It Again
    My extraordinary father recently passed away at 90. How he freed himself from hate’s grip, healed his relationship with me, and reclaimed his love for his wife is a story of hope.
    - 13 May 16, 1:28pm -
  • A Research-Backed Recipe for Deep Romance on Valentines Day
    These two exercises are a research-backed recipe for a profoundly romantic Valentine’s Day; they will deepen your long-term bond, reduce stress, and even improve your day-after!
    - 13 Feb 16, 4:46pm -
  • An Intimacy Micro-Meditation For Your New Year
    Recognizing the value of the intimacy gifts we have already is one of the greatest ways to improve our lives. This short practice will help you discover your own intimacy gifts.
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  • Three Liberating Insights For Single People
    Here are the three most liberating insights I know for single people. Follow them, and you’ll change the course of your dating life in surprising and wonderful ways.
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  • A Life-Changing Exercise for Anyone Who Has Lost a Loved One
    Perhaps the greatest secret to a love-filled life is to cherish the relationships we already have--including relationships with those who have passed. Here is a simple yet profoundly healing exercise for anyone who has lost a loved one.
    - 16 Oct 15, 12:56pm -
  • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
    If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
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  • See Your Love Life Change In 12 Weeks!
    There are many “strategies” for success and happiness in life, in love, in money – in every area of life. These “strategies” are easy to put in programs, in books and articles. They give you cut-and-dried “steps” that seem helpful at th…
    - 1 day ago, 23 Feb 17, 2:28pm -
  • Overfunctioning After Your Divorce Is Both Normal And Fatal
    The Question: Hi Rori, I am dating someone who is separated. I am divorced for 18 months. We both have children. We have lots of fun together, great sex and a nice connection. He is not emotionally ready for a relationship. He admits this. He also ad…
    - 3 days ago, 21 Feb 17, 2:31pm -
  • What To Do When He’s Always Around – But You’re Going Nowhere
    Question From Caroline: Rori, I have realized that I am not happy with the results I am currently getting in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year, and he basically lives with me. He does have his own apartment b…
    - 7 days ago, 17 Feb 17, 8:25pm -
  • For Only You For Valentine’s Day
    Here’s my favorite Valentine’s Day post, and let’s do it together – I’ll love me and you love you, and we’ll not have expectations or ideas about the MEANING of this “occasion.” No man enters into this. It’s just between me and me a…
    - 10 days ago, 14 Feb 17, 2:01pm -
  • New Ways To Use The Tools No Matter How You’re Feeling…
    The Letter: Dear Rori, I just wanted to tell you that as a french woman, I found your programs (all of them) fantastic and applicable to… French men!;-) It has been a month today that I started my personal love coaching with you and it’s a real p…
    - 14 days ago, 11 Feb 17, 12:35am -
  • Your First Good Man!
    What was it like for you the first time you were with a man who felt different from your “usual’? Who actually paid attention to you, experienced you as valuable (and you could just Feel that), and whose actions were those of a man who wanted you…
    - 27 days ago, 28 Jan 17, 7:54pm -
  • Why Circular Date?
    One of my totally talented RRRCT coaches, Katy Sykes, saw an entire article centered on Circular Dating posted on a website – with no mention of Rori Raye – and asked if it came from an RRRCT coach. No. It’s someone else – several other “ex…
    - 40 days ago, 15 Jan 17, 9:14pm -
  • What To Do When The Tears Won’t Stop
    The Question: I am having issues trying to feel my emotions without getting into drama. I’ve been taught to stuff down my emotions my whole life and now that I am feeling them I find myself welling up and crying a lot. Like my husband pointed out t…
    - 47 days ago, 9 Jan 17, 11:04am -
  • Celebrate Every Little Thing
    I just got this letter from Lynda Malerstein, a great hypnotherapist in Los Angeles, who’s helping me prepare for my hip surgery and all the emotional responses triggered by it. Although the story Lynda tells is specific – think of this letter in…
    - 50 days ago, 5 Jan 17, 2:45pm -
  • Happy 2017!
    This is my traditional New Year’s post – and I’d love to create something new with your help….Do you have any traditions for the New Year that feel great for you? I’d LOVE to put together a post, or a report that has New Years rituals and t…
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  • Nicki Minaj And Meek Mill Wedding Plans
    It hasn’t been 100 percent confirmed that Meek Mill and Nicki Minaj are engaged, but Nicki certainly has marriage on her mind. She just asked her Twitter followers to choose between a beach wedding and a church wedding, and it would be strange if s…
    - 28 Dec 15, 9:52am -
  • Dear NwaVic: My Long-Distance Girlfriend Visits Her Male Friend at His House till Nighttime
    Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I’m currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to se…
    - 25 Nov 15, 6:21am -
  • Online Dating II Your First Impression
                                                     Found on: Internet dating is very common and more and more popular these days. Of course, first thing you notice on someone’s profile where you make your f…
    - 28 Oct 15, 11:09pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: How to Get the Best Out of Your Wedding Vendors
    Aloha! As promised, as a sequel to the post on how to retain awesome vendors, here’s how to get the best of of your wedding vendors both in quality and quantity.  1. Be Nice! First things first. Once you choose your vendors, you should endeav…
    - 26 Oct 15, 5:05am -
  • The Fallacy About Feminism By Victor Terhemba
    In the present world order, the world thrives on hypocrisy and blackmail. We were all humans until ………… These days we are blackmailed with virtually everything, making the victim look like the aggressor. For example, because you are a born ag…
    - 17 Oct 15, 11:33am -
  • Corporate Social Responsibility
    Before anyone goes further in wondering what this is all about, I’ll like to be permitted to bring a little public relations into the scene. …………….. In the context of public relations, Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) is a societal f…
    - 17 Oct 15, 10:52am -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Tips on How to Choose Your Bridal Party
    The Squad.  The Clique.  The Leading Ladies and Gents.  The A-Team.  The Support Group.  The Hype-Men and Women.  ……..That’s what they are to you. But to the rest of the world, they are your bridal party…They are the men and women who g…
    - 17 Sep 15, 3:06am -
  • Pastor Chris Okotie Is Not A Pastor – Emeka Ike
    It would seem this two would soon start throwing punches, the war between Emeka Ike and Rev. Pastor Chris Okotie, is still on as Emeka has responded to Pastor Chris’s comments He said “I think his (Okotie’s) comment is a clear indication that h…
    - 7 Sep 15, 9:51am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
    Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
    - 21 Aug 15, 10:30am -
  • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
    Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
    - 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
    So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
    - 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
  • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
    It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
    - 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
  • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
    Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
    - 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
    I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
    - 24 Jul 15, 11:46am -
  • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
    The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
    - 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
    Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
    - 17 Jul 15, 5:12pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
    When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
    - 16 Jul 15, 2:33pm -
  • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
    Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
    - 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
  • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
    Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
    - 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
    Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
    - 10 Jul 15, 12:14pm -