• For the Families: Notes On the Subtle Art of Listening
    Feeling lost on what you can say or do to help your loved one who has depression? Here are some tips to get you started…
    - 3 hours ago, 29 May 16, 1:43pm -
  • A Hot Mess
    The thin line between psychic survival against all odds and systematic self-destruction.
    - 20 hours ago, 28 May 16, 8:48pm -
  • That Time I Almost Wrecked My Personal Purpose
    I once lost my personal purpose. In the process I almost ruined my life. But then I realized, personal purpose is a lifelong journey. How did it end?
    - 22 hours ago, 28 May 16, 6:58pm -
  • Three Steps To Getting Out of a Toxic Relationship
    Are you struggling with criticism and contempt, avoidance, or negative energy in your romantic relationship? Moving on may be an emotionally healthy choice.
    - 1 day ago, 28 May 16, 3:33pm -
  • Are You a Bigger Flirt than you Realize?
    Whether or not you intend to, you may be sending out signals that you’re sexually available. See which of the 5 flirting types fits your own behavior.
    - 1 day ago, 28 May 16, 12:51pm -
  • OK No Cupid?
    Do you dread the possibility that you'll end up single even as, with age, the odds increase that you will? If so, something has to change. Perhaps your attitude about singleness.
    - 2 days ago, 28 May 16, 12:10am -
  • Are Wealthy Men More Likely to Cheat?
    Recent studies suggest money makes men see more flaws in their female partners' appearance and inclines them to cheat. Do women experience the same effects?
    - 2 days ago, 27 May 16, 2:38pm -
  • “It’s complicated..."
    How does updating about your relationship on Facebook relate to how happy you are in your relationship, how happy others think you are, and how much others like you?
    - 2 days ago, 27 May 16, 1:41pm -
  • Do You Need a Communications Revelation?
    Seven essential steps for getting your message across
    - 2 days ago, 27 May 16, 1:36pm -
  • 7 Types of Stalkers and How to Spot Them
    An estimated 12 – 16% of women and 4 – 7% of men will be stalked in their lifetimes. Most stalkers are men, but one type of stalking is perpetrated almost exclusively by women.
    - 2 days ago, 27 May 16, 5:45am -




    • Losing Love—and Finding It Again
      My extraordinary father recently passed away at 90. How he freed himself from hate’s grip, healed his relationship with me, and reclaimed his love for his wife is a story of hope.
      - 16 days ago, 13 May 16, 1:28pm -
    • A Research-Backed Recipe for Deep Romance on Valentines Day
      These two exercises are a research-backed recipe for a profoundly romantic Valentine’s Day; they will deepen your long-term bond, reduce stress, and even improve your day-after!
      - 13 Feb 16, 4:46pm -
    • An Intimacy Micro-Meditation For Your New Year
      Recognizing the value of the intimacy gifts we have already is one of the greatest ways to improve our lives. This short practice will help you discover your own intimacy gifts.
      - 2 Jan 16, 2:45am -
    • Three Liberating Insights For Single People
      Here are the three most liberating insights I know for single people. Follow them, and you’ll change the course of your dating life in surprising and wonderful ways.
      - 18 Dec 15, 11:42am -
    • A Life-Changing Exercise for Anyone Who Has Lost a Loved One
      Perhaps the greatest secret to a love-filled life is to cherish the relationships we already have--including relationships with those who have passed. Here is a simple yet profoundly healing exercise for anyone who has lost a loved one.
      - 16 Oct 15, 12:56pm -
    • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
      If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
      - 30 Aug 15, 7:31pm -
    • The Simple Exercise That Will Lead You Toward Love
      The path to love is never simple. When we decide to pursue our longing for love, we’re led down a path with challenges we might never have dreamed of. For me, the decision to become a father—as a forty-something, single gay man---is what changed…
      - 21 Jun 15, 7:19pm -
    • 3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts That Hold You Back
      This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity, a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voic…
      - 23 May 15, 1:28pm -
    • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
      I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
      - 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -
    • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
      In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
      - 12 Jan 15, 2:14pm -
    • Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt: Insight-Gems for Singles
      I am so pleased to share my interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt on the conscious search for love. Simply interviewing this extraordinary couple was an inspiring experience. There are many gems of insight here, and I encourage every…
      - 16 Nov 14, 1:25pm -
    • How to Discover Your Core Intimacy Gifts
      Young or old, single or coupled, each of us is faced with the great challenge of learning to love. Our core gifts lie at the heart of our intimacy journey, and when we identify them, we hold an invaluable key to understanding ourselves and all our re…
      - 19 Oct 14, 3:54pm -


    • Dangerous Nail Polish
      Here’s just a bit of this article – scary as heck – and FIXABLE!!!! One of the biggest concerns about triphenyl phosphate (or TPHP) is that it is known to disrupt humans’ endocrine system, which controls all our hormones. Head researcher, Dr.…
      - 1 day ago, 28 May 16, 1:30pm -
    • How To Shift Your Mind To Love
      I was asked in a Business Siren interview: “What can our listeners could start doing today to shift their mindset to have more money, success, and freedom in their lives?” My answer was simple: It’s about “play.” It’s about considering wh…
      - 3 days ago, 26 May 16, 1:06pm -
    • The Best Way To Use This Blog…
      To help keep us “opinion-less” and “Feeling Message” using, here’s the “Guidelines For Posting” page (it’s in the Menu above for reference): What’s so special about this community on this blog is that we’re a safe place… We’re…
      - 5 days ago, 24 May 16, 1:38pm -
    • Can You “Make” Him Love You?
      A man’s love for you must never be considered as something that can rise or fall, or be brought into being or discarded, or won or lost by anything you do or do not do. However, the expression of that love, and his choice whether or not to express…
      - 7 days ago, 22 May 16, 1:42pm -
    • Change Your Life Like Sami Wunder Did In 22 Weeks
      Only a couple of months left to go before we start RRRCT 2016, on July 11th – and wanted you to get to know first hand one of RRRCT’s shining stars: Sami Wunder. When Sami came to RRRCT, she was feeling what many new Trainees feel – doubtful th…
      - 9 days ago, 20 May 16, 1:56pm -
    • The New Feminism And Having It All
      Because I’m focusing all my work now on the concept of “Have It All!” – I’m always on the lookout for something we can chew on here. This article profoundly affected me – because, when my…
      - 13 days ago, 16 May 16, 1:11pm -
    • Get The Power To Love – Free Interview With Coach Tatia Dee
      Tatia Dee at is a phenomenal Rori Raye Certified Coach in New York, who gave me this brilliant interview for you – along with a whole page of great tips! Just go here to listen to the interview and read through her wonder…
      - 16 days ago, 13 May 16, 1:55pm -
    • What to do when he drops the break-up bomb
      Question from Debbie: I have been in a wonderful relationship for just a little under a year. It has been long distance the entire time. We have grown closer, communicate very well- it was continualy growing- we both are very much into self developm…
      - 20 days ago, 9 May 16, 3:40pm -
    • Free Rori Raye Webinar Tomorrow – What’s Your Dream?
      What’s The Dream? This is what the hero, Joe, asks the prostitute, Kitty, in my favorite play – William Saroyan’s “The Time Of Your Life.” The play is set in “Nick’s,” a San Francisco waterfront honky-tonk. It’s a place of great tol…
      - 23 days ago, 6 May 16, 5:00pm -
    • First Ever Free Rori Raye “Have It All” Webinar (With Slides!) – Make Your Dream Real
      You Don’t Have To Settle… You don’t even have to choose between the things you love: You can Have It All, without giving up independence, success, fulfilling work and money – and romantic love, life-partnership and family. It’s not an eithe…
      - 27 days ago, 2 May 16, 1:00pm -


    • Nicki Minaj And Meek Mill Wedding Plans
      It hasn’t been 100 percent confirmed that Meek Mill and Nicki Minaj are engaged, but Nicki certainly has marriage on her mind. She just asked her Twitter followers to choose between a beach wedding and a church wedding, and it would be strange if s…
      - 28 Dec 15, 9:52am -
    • Dear NwaVic: My Long-Distance Girlfriend Visits Her Male Friend at His House till Nighttime
      Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I’m currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to se…
      - 25 Nov 15, 6:21am -
    • Online Dating II Your First Impression
                                                       Found on: Internet dating is very common and more and more popular these days. Of course, first thing you notice on someone’s profile where you make your f…
      - 28 Oct 15, 11:09pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: How to Get the Best Out of Your Wedding Vendors
      Aloha! As promised, as a sequel to the post on how to retain awesome vendors, here’s how to get the best of of your wedding vendors both in quality and quantity.  1. Be Nice! First things first. Once you choose your vendors, you should endeav…
      - 26 Oct 15, 5:05am -
    • The Fallacy About Feminism By Victor Terhemba
      In the present world order, the world thrives on hypocrisy and blackmail. We were all humans until ………… These days we are blackmailed with virtually everything, making the victim look like the aggressor. For example, because you are a born ag…
      - 17 Oct 15, 11:33am -
    • Corporate Social Responsibility
      Before anyone goes further in wondering what this is all about, I’ll like to be permitted to bring a little public relations into the scene. …………….. In the context of public relations, Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) is a societal f…
      - 17 Oct 15, 10:52am -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Tips on How to Choose Your Bridal Party
      The Squad.  The Clique.  The Leading Ladies and Gents.  The A-Team.  The Support Group.  The Hype-Men and Women.  ……..That’s what they are to you. But to the rest of the world, they are your bridal party…They are the men and women who g…
      - 17 Sep 15, 3:06am -
    • Pastor Chris Okotie Is Not A Pastor – Emeka Ike
      It would seem this two would soon start throwing punches, the war between Emeka Ike and Rev. Pastor Chris Okotie, is still on as Emeka has responded to Pastor Chris’s comments He said “I think his (Okotie’s) comment is a clear indication that h…
      - 7 Sep 15, 9:51am -
    • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
      Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
      - 21 Aug 15, 10:30am -
    • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
      Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
      - 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
      So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
      - 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
    • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
      It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
      - 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
    • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
      Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
      - 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
    • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
      I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
      - 24 Jul 15, 11:46am -
    • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
      The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
      - 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
    • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
      Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
      - 17 Jul 15, 5:12pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
      When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
      - 16 Jul 15, 2:33pm -
    • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
      Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
      - 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
    • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
      Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
      - 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
    • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
      Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
      - 10 Jul 15, 12:14pm -