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  • Could Loving What You Do Be A Problem?
    Do you love your work? Do you believe that what you do each day is making a positive difference? Does it give you a sense of identity and a feeling of purpose in the world?
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  • Do You Truly Love Animals?
    Do you know how to show your love for animals truly? This article helps illustrate some surprising insights!
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  • Lindsay Lohan: Post-Engagement Behavior?
    Cold feet?
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  • 5 Tips for Avoiding Regrets about Love
    Wondering how to avoid having regrets about love and relationships? These five tips will help keep you from saying "if only..."
    - 15 hours ago, 28 Jul 16, 7:11pm -
  • Stone-Walling Your Wife Can Give You Back Trouble
    Stone-walling can give husbands back and neck pain, according to a study with 20 years of data.
    - 15 hours ago, 28 Jul 16, 7:01pm -
  • I Like Them, But Do They Like Me?
    Observing a few nonverbal cues will instantly let you know if people like you or not.
    - 15 hours ago, 28 Jul 16, 6:48pm -
  • You're Not Really Friends With That Internet Celebrity
    The psychology of why you feel an illusion of closeness to your favorite internet personality
    - 19 hours ago, 28 Jul 16, 3:13pm -
  • "Pay Attention, Teach'"
    On communicating effectively with people with a different world view.
    - 1 day ago, 28 Jul 16, 6:05am -
  • Jesus, Trump, and American Morality
    Jesus and Trump couldn't be more different.
    - 2 days ago, 27 Jul 16, 9:34pm -
  • Competing for Love
    Is competition for your adult children's love making you miserable? Managing competitive feelings without acting on them can be a major challenge.
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  • NewP a r a d o x

    P a r a d o x

      Distances are negated, by the thoughts in which you dwell, meetings and partings now just a p
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  • NewFinding The Perfect Imbalance
    Great to collaborate with a fellow passionate working mum Claire de Carteret on this article explori
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  • NewPsychTalks... Addiction
    In this episode of PsychTalks, we’re discussing Addiction; Quite a dark topic but I’ve been wanting
    - 9 mins ago, 29 Jul 16, 9:57am -
  • NewQuotable quotes from Sassy Mommy

    Quotable quotes from Sassy Mommy

    25 Pearls of Wisdom from Sassy Mommy who calls herself a Wise Fool “Don’t prepare your c
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  • New11 things a guest-repeller would totally connect with!

    11 things a guest-repeller would totally connect with!

    Atithi-devo-bhava, as our culture teaches us is a Sanskrit translation of “Guest is God”. But how ma
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  • NewNetwork problems...

    Network problems...

      When I say I love Fridays its because good things always happen on Friday. This week has been
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  • NewRefuge
    The beach was strewn with tangled cords of seaweed. Gulls pecked at them, their wings outstretched.
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  • NewMen, Merlot, and Me

    Men, Merlot, and Me

    Whenever I read a post about wrinkles, receding hairlines, and grey hair on men, it’s written from a
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  • NewReading Ruth 01 - Blessing in Bitterness 
    ​“Don’t call me Naomi, ” she told them. “Call me Mara, because the Almighty has made my life very bi
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  • The Six Steps to Sacred Citizenship
    According to Stephen Dinan, author of the Sacred America, there are six steps each of us can take that create world-change and personal joy. Here are those six steps:
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  • The 2 Questions You Have to Ask About Your Relationship
    This simple exercise will lead you to greater intimacy, joy and healing in your most important relationships.
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  • Losing Love—and Finding It Again
    My extraordinary father recently passed away at 90. How he freed himself from hate’s grip, healed his relationship with me, and reclaimed his love for his wife is a story of hope.
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  • A Research-Backed Recipe for Deep Romance on Valentines Day
    These two exercises are a research-backed recipe for a profoundly romantic Valentine’s Day; they will deepen your long-term bond, reduce stress, and even improve your day-after!
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  • An Intimacy Micro-Meditation For Your New Year
    Recognizing the value of the intimacy gifts we have already is one of the greatest ways to improve our lives. This short practice will help you discover your own intimacy gifts.
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  • Three Liberating Insights For Single People
    Here are the three most liberating insights I know for single people. Follow them, and you’ll change the course of your dating life in surprising and wonderful ways.
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  • A Life-Changing Exercise for Anyone Who Has Lost a Loved One
    Perhaps the greatest secret to a love-filled life is to cherish the relationships we already have--including relationships with those who have passed. Here is a simple yet profoundly healing exercise for anyone who has lost a loved one.
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  • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
    If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
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  • The Simple Exercise That Will Lead You Toward Love
    The path to love is never simple. When we decide to pursue our longing for love, we’re led down a path with challenges we might never have dreamed of. For me, the decision to become a father—as a forty-something, single gay man---is what changed…
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  • 3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts That Hold You Back
    This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity, a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voic…
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  • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
    I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
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  • The Quickest, Smartest Way to Bring More Love into Your Life
    In deciding your most important goals for 2015, don’t forget the factor that's most likely to give you joy, contentment, and a deep sense of personal meaning and mission. We all know what that is: It's loving relationships. I'm referring to all for…
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  • Your Inner Tribe
    This post is sort of a question. It’s not about looking outside to create your outer “tribe.” Instead, the question is – “What’s your ‘inner tribe’ like?” Essentially, it’s our inner tribe that shows up as our outer tribe. All the…
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  • When He’s “Nice” – How To Make Him More Dangerous
    Here’s a comment I’m going to jump off of – it came from the post about Dangerous or “Nice” men… The Question: “Rori, I am kind of dating the stereotypical nice guy, low testosterone, borderline feminine/passive, and it’s been a strug…
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  • Is He “On” Or Is He “Off”?
    The Question: Dear Rori, I have bought 3 of your programs. Commitment Blueprint, Have The Relationship You Want and Love Scripts. Love Scripts really helped me get in tuned with how I feel and I sense the difference in myself. People compliment me on…
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  • Is He Emotionally Competent?
    I came across this “term” in an article and wanted to jump off of it: “Emotional competency” is defined as: an individual’s ability to handle certain events and stresses on an emotional level. So – what the heck does THAT mean? Who gets t…
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  • The Theme Park Of YOU – StuckLand
    A note about stuckness: Do you feel like you’re stuck on one ride in your Theme Park? Playing one role in your art work? Stuck with one media, one trick, one way, one man, one anything? Do you feel like you always go to the same PLACE in you? the s…
    - 18 days ago, 11 Jul 16, 1:31pm -
  • Featured Coach Penny Plummer About RRRCT
    “I’m very excited about my future as a Rori Raye Certified Life and Relationship Coach – I have a new direction in life and exciting future doing what I love, my way! At the age of 52 I was wondering if I could keep up with the younger ladies i…
    - 22 days ago, 7 Jul 16, 1:48pm -
  • And What’s So Great About “Independence”?
    For us in the U.S., the 4th of July is about our independence from England…But more than that, it’s about the creation of our own country. If there could be a metaphor about love here filled with the kind of love advice that talks about being ind…
    - 25 days ago, 4 Jul 16, 1:56pm -
  • Get Great Free Life And Relationship Coaching From A New RRRCT Coach!
    Hi, This is Rori, and you can get great, free coaching from one of my new, amazing “Homestudy” RRRCT Trainees right NOW! Naomie Thompson’s an amazing new coach, (she uses my Tools and techniques, she’s practiced extensively coaching me and th…
    - 28 days ago, 1 Jul 16, 1:58pm -
  • What Does It Mean To Be Older?
    The Question: “Hi Rori, How do I get a better mind on men being attracted to younger women more than elder women cause there are so many rich old guys who marry so young woman. Are the younger more attractive and better? I’m still young but I am…
    - 32 days ago, 27 Jun 16, 1:15pm -
  • Webinar Sunday, June 26th!: How To Become A Successful Coach – No Matter Where You’re Starting From…
    How You Can Be Successful At Something That Helps And Heals Others… What if all the girlfriends who’re always asking you for love, life and relationship advice actually paid you for your time, experience and knowledge? What if the woman you met i…
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  • Nicki Minaj And Meek Mill Wedding Plans
    It hasn’t been 100 percent confirmed that Meek Mill and Nicki Minaj are engaged, but Nicki certainly has marriage on her mind. She just asked her Twitter followers to choose between a beach wedding and a church wedding, and it would be strange if s…
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  • Dear NwaVic: My Long-Distance Girlfriend Visits Her Male Friend at His House till Nighttime
    Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I’m currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to se…
    - 25 Nov 15, 6:21am -
  • Online Dating II Your First Impression
                                                     Found on: Internet dating is very common and more and more popular these days. Of course, first thing you notice on someone’s profile where you make your f…
    - 28 Oct 15, 11:09pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: How to Get the Best Out of Your Wedding Vendors
    Aloha! As promised, as a sequel to the post on how to retain awesome vendors, here’s how to get the best of of your wedding vendors both in quality and quantity.  1. Be Nice! First things first. Once you choose your vendors, you should endeav…
    - 26 Oct 15, 5:05am -
  • The Fallacy About Feminism By Victor Terhemba
    In the present world order, the world thrives on hypocrisy and blackmail. We were all humans until ………… These days we are blackmailed with virtually everything, making the victim look like the aggressor. For example, because you are a born ag…
    - 17 Oct 15, 11:33am -
  • Corporate Social Responsibility
    Before anyone goes further in wondering what this is all about, I’ll like to be permitted to bring a little public relations into the scene. …………….. In the context of public relations, Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) is a societal f…
    - 17 Oct 15, 10:52am -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Tips on How to Choose Your Bridal Party
    The Squad.  The Clique.  The Leading Ladies and Gents.  The A-Team.  The Support Group.  The Hype-Men and Women.  ……..That’s what they are to you. But to the rest of the world, they are your bridal party…They are the men and women who g…
    - 17 Sep 15, 3:06am -
  • Pastor Chris Okotie Is Not A Pastor – Emeka Ike
    It would seem this two would soon start throwing punches, the war between Emeka Ike and Rev. Pastor Chris Okotie, is still on as Emeka has responded to Pastor Chris’s comments He said “I think his (Okotie’s) comment is a clear indication that h…
    - 7 Sep 15, 9:51am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
    Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
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  • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
    Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
    - 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
    So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
    - 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
  • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
    It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
    - 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
  • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
    Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
    - 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
    I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
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  • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
    The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
    - 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
    Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
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  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
    When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
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  • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
    Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
    - 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
  • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
    Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
    - 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
    Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
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