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      - 16 Oct 15, 12:56pm -
    • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
      If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
      - 30 Aug 15, 7:31pm -
    • The Simple Exercise That Will Lead You Toward Love
      The path to love is never simple. When we decide to pursue our longing for love, we’re led down a path with challenges we might never have dreamed of. For me, the decision to become a father—as a forty-something, single gay man---is what changed…
      - 21 Jun 15, 7:19pm -
    • 3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts That Hold You Back
      This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity, a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voic…
      - 23 May 15, 1:28pm -
    • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
      I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
      - 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -
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    • 2 Ideas That Will Change The Way You Think About Romance
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    • NewMy Bad Dream
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    • Free Teleclass And Interview With Coach Helena Hart!
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    • About Men And Women’s Brains
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    • The Expression Of Love
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    • How To Love Going First
      Here I am at a street corner walking my dog. There’re cars coming and going…they stop for me… and I feel the stress and anxiety rising in my body. The idea of crossing the street in front of them feels like a performance… I have stage fright.…
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    • You Can’t Impose “Order”

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    • Creating Experience For You And A Man
      A good feeling experience between you and a man can last for several days… So can you imagine what might happen if you could build a really good feeling experience for both of you many times per day? So what stops any of us from creating this? Regu…
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    • Living Through And After A Hurricane

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    • Six Ways to Get Through to Him: How Men Say Women Should Communicate
      They say men are from Mars and women from Venus and it’s never more apparent than when we’re talking. Find out how to get through to him—without being a nag.
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    • What’s Your Lovestyle?
      There are ways to figure out your work style and your learning style, so why not your lovestyle?Psychologist John A. Lee interviewed hundreds of people and concluded that there were a number of different ways of “being” in a relationship. Unders…
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    • Do the Holidays Equal Relationship Doom?
      Yes, it's that time of year again. Thanksgiving kicks off the annual relationship freeze which lasts through the New Year. Much like government wage freezes that leave DMV workers and other civil servants with salaries stuck in 1973, the annual datin…
      - 70 days ago, 2 Dec 15, 8:00am -


    • Nicki Minaj And Meek Mill Wedding Plans
      It hasn’t been 100 percent confirmed that Meek Mill and Nicki Minaj are engaged, but Nicki certainly has marriage on her mind. She just asked her Twitter followers to choose between a beach wedding and a church wedding, and it would be strange if s…
      - 44 days ago, 28 Dec 15, 9:52am -
    • Dear NwaVic: My Long-Distance Girlfriend Visits Her Male Friend at His House till Nighttime
      Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I’m currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to se…
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    • Online Dating II Your First Impression
                                                       Found on: Internet dating is very common and more and more popular these days. Of course, first thing you notice on someone’s profile where you make your f…
      - 28 Oct 15, 11:09pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: How to Get the Best Out of Your Wedding Vendors
      Aloha! As promised, as a sequel to the post on how to retain awesome vendors, here’s how to get the best of of your wedding vendors both in quality and quantity.  1. Be Nice! First things first. Once you choose your vendors, you should endeav…
      - 26 Oct 15, 5:05am -
    • The Fallacy About Feminism By Victor Terhemba
      In the present world order, the world thrives on hypocrisy and blackmail. We were all humans until ………… These days we are blackmailed with virtually everything, making the victim look like the aggressor. For example, because you are a born ag…
      - 17 Oct 15, 11:33am -
    • Corporate Social Responsibility
      Before anyone goes further in wondering what this is all about, I’ll like to be permitted to bring a little public relations into the scene. …………….. In the context of public relations, Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) is a societal f…
      - 17 Oct 15, 10:52am -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Tips on How to Choose Your Bridal Party
      The Squad.  The Clique.  The Leading Ladies and Gents.  The A-Team.  The Support Group.  The Hype-Men and Women.  ……..That’s what they are to you. But to the rest of the world, they are your bridal party…They are the men and women who g…
      - 17 Sep 15, 3:06am -
    • Pastor Chris Okotie Is Not A Pastor – Emeka Ike
      It would seem this two would soon start throwing punches, the war between Emeka Ike and Rev. Pastor Chris Okotie, is still on as Emeka has responded to Pastor Chris’s comments He said “I think his (Okotie’s) comment is a clear indication that h…
      - 7 Sep 15, 9:51am -
    • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
      Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
      - 21 Aug 15, 10:30am -
    • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
      Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
      - 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
      So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
      - 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
    • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
      It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
      - 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
    • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
      Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
      - 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
    • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
      I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
      - 24 Jul 15, 11:46am -
    • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
      The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
      - 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
    • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
      Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
      - 17 Jul 15, 5:12pm -
    • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
      When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
      - 16 Jul 15, 2:33pm -
    • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
      Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
      - 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
    • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
      Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
      - 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
    • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
      Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
      - 10 Jul 15, 12:14pm -