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  • You’re Not Crazy⎯He’s Controlling!
    Psychological abuse incites greater fear and impacts a woman's psyche and sense of wellbeing to the same extent as physical abuse.
    - 8 hours ago, 22 Oct 16, 10:25pm -
  • Sex, Power, and Risk
    When it comes to power in sexual relationships, who really controls what goes on in the bedroom?
    - 8 hours ago, 22 Oct 16, 9:59pm -
  • Election Stress Disorder
    Americans are suffering emotionally due to the caustic nature of the election, and our brains offer both the explanation and the solution.
    - 13 hours ago, 22 Oct 16, 4:53pm -
  • The Impact of Death on our Everyday Lives
    Defensive reactions to personal trauma, separation issues, and especially death anxiety impact our lives at three distinct levels.
    - 1 day ago, 21 Oct 16, 9:29pm -
  • Are You Obsessing Over Your Ex?
    If your ex recently broke up with you, you may have OCD-like symptoms. The good news: standard self-help techniques for OCD may be able to speed up your recovery from the breakup.
    - 2 days ago, 21 Oct 16, 5:24pm -
  • Those Who Make Your Checklist Often Don’t Make It
    It’s the one that contains all the characteristics of the partner of your dreams, the one with whom you know you’ll experience happiness forever after.
    - 2 days ago, 21 Oct 16, 4:57pm -
  • The Pitt-Jolie Divorce, Five Takeaways
    What can we take away from the highly publicized Jolie/Pitt divorce and apply to our own relationships?
    - 2 days ago, 21 Oct 16, 10:19am -
  • Do Facebook "Likes" Affect Psychological Well-Being?
    New research shows that the way we're affected by Facebook likes may depend on our self-esteem, and our sense of purpose in life.
    - 2 days ago, 21 Oct 16, 3:36am -
  • Love Handles
    How we “handle”, or better yet, help a significant other overcome negative experiences and behaviors can pave the way for more positive present and future sexual encounters.
    - 2 days ago, 21 Oct 16, 12:56am -
  • Beware of the Go-For-the-Jugular Vampire
    This vampire is one of the most malevolent of bloodsuckers, this person is vindictive and cuts you down with no consideration for your feelings. Learn how to protect yourself.
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  • NewCaptain of my Soul
    Strength.                      Courage.                                      Determination.        
    - 2 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 6:10am -
  • NewStats
    The more I think about it, the more I’m glad to be shot of Rebecca.  I have almost nothing but
    - 8 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 6:04am -
  • NewWill you stay for long?
    Dear You… So we fought again tonight. I’m beginning to get used to it now, you know
    - 12 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 6:00am -
  • NewA Lovely Dwelling Place
    Psalm 84 We sing the hymn about “how lovely is your Dwelling Place” and think about the
    - 16 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 5:56am -
  • NewLove is good 
    “Though the useful is not always good, the good is always useful. Good is not only good, but reprodu
    - 20 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 5:52am -
  • NewA Relationship's Guide
    I don’t want to write this post any more than you want to read it, believe me. But, I’m
    - 20 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 5:52am -
  • New​Decisions: The Steering Wheel to Your Life. (Dale Bronner)
    Outline of Sermon: Life is filled with decisions. The journey is as important as the destinatio
    - 20 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 5:52am -
  • NewUntitled

    Where did I go after I began to love? Where is the girl I tried so hard to protect? Is she afraid of
    - 23 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 5:49am -
  • NewRagnarok
    My SO plays a lot of video games.  It has never ever bothered me at all.  But he has always wanted m
    - 27 mins ago, 23 Oct 16, 5:45am -
  • NewDear Johnson Hall Room 315...
    Dear Johnson Hall Room 315… So, you’ve decided to go to college at Trevecca. What you ar
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  • Why Popular Dating Advice Is Keeping You Single
    Popular dating advice consistently leads single people away from the very love they are seeking. Research explains why this is and what to do about it.
    - 43 days ago, 10 Sep 16, 1:18pm -
  • The Six Steps to Sacred Citizenship
    According to Stephen Dinan, author of the Sacred America, there are six steps each of us can take that create world-change and personal joy. Here are those six steps:
    - 6 Jul 16, 2:53am -
  • The 2 Questions You Have to Ask About Your Relationship
    This simple exercise will lead you to greater intimacy, joy and healing in your most important relationships.
    - 11 Jun 16, 7:14pm -
  • Losing Love—and Finding It Again
    My extraordinary father recently passed away at 90. How he freed himself from hate’s grip, healed his relationship with me, and reclaimed his love for his wife is a story of hope.
    - 13 May 16, 1:28pm -
  • A Research-Backed Recipe for Deep Romance on Valentines Day
    These two exercises are a research-backed recipe for a profoundly romantic Valentine’s Day; they will deepen your long-term bond, reduce stress, and even improve your day-after!
    - 13 Feb 16, 4:46pm -
  • An Intimacy Micro-Meditation For Your New Year
    Recognizing the value of the intimacy gifts we have already is one of the greatest ways to improve our lives. This short practice will help you discover your own intimacy gifts.
    - 2 Jan 16, 2:45am -
  • Three Liberating Insights For Single People
    Here are the three most liberating insights I know for single people. Follow them, and you’ll change the course of your dating life in surprising and wonderful ways.
    - 18 Dec 15, 11:42am -
  • A Life-Changing Exercise for Anyone Who Has Lost a Loved One
    Perhaps the greatest secret to a love-filled life is to cherish the relationships we already have--including relationships with those who have passed. Here is a simple yet profoundly healing exercise for anyone who has lost a loved one.
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  • Why You're Lucky to be Single and Seeking Love
    If you’re single and you’re willing to treat your dating life as a journey of growth, then you’re very lucky. Why? Because the way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. By approaching your dating life with deeper aware…
    - 30 Aug 15, 7:31pm -
  • The Simple Exercise That Will Lead You Toward Love
    The path to love is never simple. When we decide to pursue our longing for love, we’re led down a path with challenges we might never have dreamed of. For me, the decision to become a father—as a forty-something, single gay man---is what changed…
    - 21 Jun 15, 7:19pm -
  • 3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts That Hold You Back
    This simple technique is designed to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of its three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity, a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voic…
    - 23 May 15, 1:28pm -
  • Sparkle Versus Glow—and What That Means For Your Love Life
    I recently had a dialogue with Sophia Dembling, author of Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After. Both of us had books come out at about the same time concerning the search for love. Her insights on the distinction between glow and s…
    - 14 Mar 15, 2:07pm -


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  • She Got Married — And Yes, It’s Different
    This is an amazing letter I just received from Korina Fleur, an amazing coach and so much more, and I felt everything she says down to my toes. I’ve saved it for myself – because what Korina describes here is the essence of partnership, marriage,…
    - 3 days ago, 19 Oct 16, 7:31pm -
  • Free Interview With Rori Tonight!
    Adrienne Everheart is a fantastic Certified Rori Raye Coach, and here’s our interview for her Tuesday evening class – Today: Love Academy Class!  with Adrienne Everheart   Live Call-In LOVE ACADEMY Class with Special Guest Rori Raye We are just…
    - 18 days ago, 4 Oct 16, 9:21pm -
  • Untitled
    OMGoodness – I just found out about this and want you to know: Coach Helena Hart and Coach Leigha Lake are doing a group class – together! –  beginning next week, Tuesday! Helena and Leigha each have full, wait-listed private practices with in…
    - 20 days ago, 3 Oct 16, 5:50pm -
  • Oh My Goodness, It’s Raining Men…But What About My Ex?
    The Question: “Rori, I am feeling comforted having completed all of your programs in the complete collection almost done with toxic men, my last one to finish. I was thinking of “how to get your man back ” and I may still but I jumped the gun a…
    - 28 days ago, 25 Sep 16, 5:29pm -
  • Tips To Flirt Like An Artist
    1. Use the peace and great feeling of a walk in the woods in your imagination… …bring an imaginary partner in to stroll, help and support you, touch you, smile at you, lean in toward you, kiss you…and feel your way through the imaginary connect…
    - 33 days ago, 19 Sep 16, 11:54pm -
  • From Toxic In Love To Simply Loved
    Essentially, intimacy is scary. For some of us, it’s terrifying. Going with a man who doesn’t light our fire, yet offers us true intimacy is a very confusing thing. Staying away from a man who lights our fire but doesn’t offer or want true inti…
    - 57 days ago, 27 Aug 16, 5:58pm -
  • When He’s On the Attack…
    This is what Feeling Messages are made for! When a man says something that makes you feel something you don’t want to feel – bad, mad, sad – the first thing we all want to do is: Shutdown. And when we shutdown, we shut him down, too. We shut do…
    - 63 days ago, 20 Aug 16, 7:28pm -
  • Are You On Your Path To Love?
    Let’s say: “You are on the path of your divine nature.” And – What does that mean? If you live a faith-based life, that makes sense to you, and if your life philosophy is more “existential,” it may sound like “hooey.” So – let me ex…
    - 71 days ago, 12 Aug 16, 6:39pm -
  • A Success Story From Nancy
    Dear Rori and Coach Michelle Manley, I felt moved to share with you a lovely new relationship I’ve found myself in with a man 10 years younger than myself. I met him online and there was instant ‘attraction’. Yet, in our conversation he proved…
    - 82 days ago, 2 Aug 16, 1:42pm -
  • If You Think He’s “Using” You – And You’re Still There – Do This…
    The Question: I have been seeing this man now for almost 5 yrs..on/off…I feel that he is just using me for his own benefit…You say get out there and start do you do this when you are emotionally attached. I feel I need to be home wh…
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  • Nicki Minaj And Meek Mill Wedding Plans
    It hasn’t been 100 percent confirmed that Meek Mill and Nicki Minaj are engaged, but Nicki certainly has marriage on her mind. She just asked her Twitter followers to choose between a beach wedding and a church wedding, and it would be strange if s…
    - 28 Dec 15, 9:52am -
  • Dear NwaVic: My Long-Distance Girlfriend Visits Her Male Friend at His House till Nighttime
    Dear NwaVic, Nice work you got going here. Keep it up. I have a serious issue on my mind about a lady I am dating. I’m currently on the 6th month of NYSC in Taraba state. Because of the distance and insurgency in the area, I have not traveled to se…
    - 25 Nov 15, 6:21am -
  • Online Dating II Your First Impression
                                                     Found on: Internet dating is very common and more and more popular these days. Of course, first thing you notice on someone’s profile where you make your f…
    - 28 Oct 15, 11:09pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: How to Get the Best Out of Your Wedding Vendors
    Aloha! As promised, as a sequel to the post on how to retain awesome vendors, here’s how to get the best of of your wedding vendors both in quality and quantity.  1. Be Nice! First things first. Once you choose your vendors, you should endeav…
    - 26 Oct 15, 5:05am -
  • The Fallacy About Feminism By Victor Terhemba
    In the present world order, the world thrives on hypocrisy and blackmail. We were all humans until ………… These days we are blackmailed with virtually everything, making the victim look like the aggressor. For example, because you are a born ag…
    - 17 Oct 15, 11:33am -
  • Corporate Social Responsibility
    Before anyone goes further in wondering what this is all about, I’ll like to be permitted to bring a little public relations into the scene. …………….. In the context of public relations, Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) is a societal f…
    - 17 Oct 15, 10:52am -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Tips on How to Choose Your Bridal Party
    The Squad.  The Clique.  The Leading Ladies and Gents.  The A-Team.  The Support Group.  The Hype-Men and Women.  ……..That’s what they are to you. But to the rest of the world, they are your bridal party…They are the men and women who g…
    - 17 Sep 15, 3:06am -
  • Pastor Chris Okotie Is Not A Pastor – Emeka Ike
    It would seem this two would soon start throwing punches, the war between Emeka Ike and Rev. Pastor Chris Okotie, is still on as Emeka has responded to Pastor Chris’s comments He said “I think his (Okotie’s) comment is a clear indication that h…
    - 7 Sep 15, 9:51am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Sized Don’t Matter As Long As You Know How To Work It
    Whenever I say s3x is the last thing on my mind … Our Nigerian brothers are most likely to say, “Titi it is because you haven’t been with me. If I handle you, your legs might be useless for 2 weeks”. In fact, a friend of mine from Akwa Ibom,…
    - 21 Aug 15, 10:30am -
  • Dear NwaVic: Am I having an Emotional Affair with my Work-Husband?
    Dear NwaVic, I work in an office of about 10 people. One of my colleagues and I have gotten close over the past year I have worked here. I am engaged and he is married. I see it as a friendship- we gist and joke around. Sometimes, we have lunch toget…
    - 19 Aug 15, 6:48pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 10 Tips to Help You Stick to Budget
    So, a couple of weeks ago, I told you about making that killer wedding budget.   But putting a budget together is only a tip of the iceberg.  Anyone can put numbers into an excel spreadsheet. Sticking to it is an entirely different ball game. I…
    - 11 Aug 15, 3:56am -
  • Photos: What Mimi Orjiekwe, Charles Billion Didn’t Reveal Before Their Traditional Wedding
    It’s a known gist that as earlier reported, finally, celebrity couple Mimi Orjiekwe and Charles Billion, who got engaged three years ago are now husband and wife. But what was not in the news is that prior to the marriage, Charles, had to let his l…
    - 27 Jul 15, 9:39pm -
  • Toke Makinwa’s Hubby Reportedly Welcome First Child From Lover Anita Solomon
    Reports buzzing on the internet   is that Toke Makinwa’s husband Maje Ayida has welcomed his first child with lover, Anita Solomon. It was reported that the new born baby arrived last week, on Sunday, July 19, 2015 in a hospital in UK. Although…
    - 26 Jul 15, 7:24pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: Mounting Body Counts
    I remember coming across a story online where it was stated that Kim kardashian had slept with over 15 men in the entertainment industry, and a lot of people had something to say. But, I’d address Nigerians since we had a lot more to say. Before i…
    - 24 Jul 15, 11:46am -
  • President Buhari Says No To Same Sex Marriage Proposal
    The Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to the President, Femi Adesina, has taken to his official Twitter page to reveal that President Muhammadu Buhari has bluntly rejected the proposal of same sex marriage from the United States. When the issue…
    - 23 Jul 15, 9:04am -
  • Raw Onugbu: Who Should Join a Couple? Pastor or Father to the Bride/Groom?
    Whom to join a couple; pastor or father to the bride/groom???Before saying “The pastor of course”, take a moment to understand the argument here. If you are a Christian in the house, wave your hands in the air!! Ok, I see you. Here’s a question…
    - 17 Jul 15, 5:12pm -
  • NwaVic’s Wed2Plan Series: 7 Reasons Why You Need A Wedding Planner
    When you first get engaged, you’re so excited, you’re almost blinded to the work that lays ahead of you. Creating that perfect day requires a lot of “detailed” work. Sooner or later, as a bride-to-be, you’d  realize that in order to keep y…
    - 16 Jul 15, 2:33pm -
  • A Bucket Of Tears For Heart Break! Baba Tee’s Ex “Yetunde Oduwole” Rain Curses On Him
    Heart breaks do not go as we say them when we are not the one in the scenario. This case is a typical example of what goes on during heart break periods. 44 years old “Yeunde Oduwole” a Uk based Nigerian celebrity could not hold back the tears as…
    - 14 Jul 15, 9:49am -
  • Dear NwaVic, My Boyfriend Wants Me to Lose Weight
    Dear NwaVic, I am what you call a ghost reader. I follow your blog quite regularly but haven’t subscribed. I’m very inspired by you. My friend once sent me the link to one of your posts and I’ve never stopped reading since then. Sometimes, I fe…
    - 13 Jul 15, 12:48pm -
  • Raw Onugbu: He Honours Me, Therefore I Cry!
    Yes yes! I know what you are saying…. When did become so razz??! What in the heck is Raw Onugbu? Well, that’s how we’d be dishing it to you; raw and bitter! Gone with the sugar-coasting, mincing of words and lies….we’ll be giving…
    - 10 Jul 15, 12:14pm -